[Lynn22514]

Don’t analyze it too much. Just go with the ‘I’m in love with this man’ part and see where that goes. Don’t worry about labeling yourself or your feelings for this person. You are having a strong emotional response and possibly an attachement that you shouldn’t agonize over or deprive yourself the experience of exploring. The feelings may be mutual, or you may be rejected if and when you ever disclose your feelings for this man. You will be hurt by rejection, and if that scares you terribly manybe you’d just better walk as far away from this situation as possible right now. But if it’s something you think you could cope with and would seek out support (groups or counseling) to help you through that rejection if it should ever come, then why not go for exploring the relationship. You’ve connected with another person on a deep emotional level, and it may remain only at that level. That’s a beautiful thing to experience in life, and you may just have to settle for the fact that you fell in love with a man once – and something more came of it, or nothing more – and it was a great, life-affirming experience. Forget the labels of who you are and focus on the love you are capable of giving and receiving. That’s who you are.

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Name : Lynn22514, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : multiracial, Age : 37, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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