[Lily22930]

I had the same problem when I was your age, and I think it’s probably a combination of your anxiety and theirs. Guys your age are generally less sure of themselves than older men and are therefore more likely to talk to girls they think are ‘popular’ or do not appear threatening. If you are nervous, or appear a bit too keen to be approached, it might put them off. When I was your age, I had a friend who always ‘pulled’ men when I didn’t, and she always told me it was easy to attract men. I now know it is! You have to come across as confident and secure in yourself, completely independent and unneedy. This makes them feel secure and comfortable talking to you – the same is true of anyone if you think about it. The quickest way to get someone talking to you, however, is just to speak to them first – but do it casually. Say hello or something slightly flirty, like ‘I like your shirt’ and let them respond. If he doesn’t respond straightaway, go on straight back to talking with your friends … and let him pursue you.

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Name : Lily22930, Gender : F, Age : 32, City : London, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom, 

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