[Lawrence]

I believe I am more qualified to comment on this than any other individual who has commented in this forum so far. I am 55, my dear wife is 22. We met when she was in her early teens, but we were nothing more than friends; I had no other interest in her. We had some common interests and outlooks that we enjoyed talking about on occasion, and that was all. I was married to someone else, and I took the committment seriously. After a while, she moved on with her life and I moved on with mine, although we missed each other’s company. After a separation of several years, we met each other again and re-established our friendship. Quite frankly, our feelings changed over time, and we fell deeply in love. Medical issues caused me to re-examine my life as it was; I realized that I had never felt truly valued in my original marriage. Did I want to spend whatever good time I had left in a one-sided, lifeless marriage for the sake of financial security? I decided that love, commonality, mutual respect, and passion were more important. To make a long story short, I am now married to one of the warmest, caring, loving women I have ever known; she just happens to be 33 years younger than I. If someone of age 50 with the same combination of characteristics had graced my life instead, perhaps I would have fallen in love with and married her. But the person who did so just happened to be 20 at the time, so I married HER. We are of different races (She is Mexican, I am Anglo.) and I must walk with a cane; we’ve never gone out in public without having a few people blatantly stare at us. I guess being rude and judgemental isn’t a sin, but being a legally married, biracial couple with an age difference is. It used to make us angry, but we laugh about it now, because there are very few couples who are lucky enough to have what we have. We both feel that people who behave that way must not have much of a life if our business is more important to them than their own. Let ’em stare.

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Name : Lawrence, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : Parkinson's Disease, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Unitarian, Age : 55, City : Chicago area, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : Teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Lawrence]

When I was younger, I dated white women. That’s about all that was really available in good ol’ WASP suburbia. Besides, my racist parents would have gone nuts if I’d brought home anything other than a white girl. I married one, with whom I raised two children who are grown. We divorced two and a half years ago. I’m now married to an utterly lovely Mexican woman, who has beautiful black hair on her arms, and for me, she lets her legs go unshaven unless she has to wear a dress or bathing suit. Her downy body hair on her back and behind is black, too, and it is incredibly sexy. I understand that current fashion dictates that the majority of men like shaved female privates, too; not me! I want to make love to someone whose privates look like those of a woman, not a little girl’s!

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Name : Lawrence, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : Parkinson's Disease, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Unitarian, Age : 55, City : Chicago area, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : Teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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