[Kristina26259]

I understand what you are going through, although even at my highest weight I was never considered ‘obese.’ Still, weight has always been an issue, and unless I’m between a size 3 to 6, I don’t feel good about myself at a higher weight. I could not stand the thought of being fat, because I was raised to always be pretty and alluring. Although I had the hour-glass figure, I seemed to always get compliments on it by both whites and blacks. It wasn’t until I was severely teased in high school about my big hips and thighs that I started worrying so much about it. And unless I get down to 100 pounds (which may be next to impossible), I may always feel subconscious. As far as my perception of others who are overweight, I do not care. I think it’s very rude if someone so blatantly points out another person’s downfalls, especially if it’s a man making fun of a woman. However, I will admit that I may think a bit negatively about an obese person if they dress inappropriately. Sometimes the way one dresses can cause unwanted attention.

And as far as the men, what are the ages of these people who are calling you a ‘fat bitch’? They would almost have to be young teens or adults, as I would think older men would be so much more mature than to act in such a primitive fashion. If my hypothesis is correct, you should realize that young people are immature in general. They will make fun of you regardless of what size you are. It is best to ignore these fools and just move on. Believe me, even if you were a size zero, they would still find something to tease you about.

By the way, just because men (especially young ones) say or do whatever, it doesn’t mean a thing about whether you are sexually attractive to males in general. Sometimes you will find the men with the biggest mouth are the main ones coming home to voluptuous women. But it doesn’t matter. I wouldn’t want a man who could only love me for what size I am.

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Name : Kristina26259, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 21, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Occupation : Transcriber, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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