[Kevin26332]

Secrets are a poor foundation to build a marriage on. You should tell him. He’ll probably be furious, but he’ll get over it. Also, you should tell him at the proper time – which would quite likely be after a little one-on-one time, if you know what I mean. In terms of whether you should do some of those things, I’d say yes. You really don’t want your man wandering around out there spending more time thinking about the great times he had before compared to the good times he has with you. (How would you feel if you had to go around with your belly half-full all the time, as if you were allowed to eat your favorite foods, but never allowed to eat as much as you want?) That doesn’t mean you have to leap right into the deep end of the pool. You can probably start slow, maybe blindfolding him the next time you make love, or letting him blindfold you. Giving him oral sex will probably go a long way towards increasing his pleasure; for a lot of guys no oral sex is a deal-breaker, like being told that you can never eat your favorite meal or dessert again as long as you live (I know: the food analogies are omnipresent, but they get the job done). I’m not saying you’ll lose him if you don’t, but you don’t want him walking around so hungry for it that the first tramp who’s willing to get on her knees has a shot at taking him away from you.

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Name : Kevin26332, Gender : M, Race : Black/African American, Age : 35, City : Houston, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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