[Kairuka32479]

That’s not true across the board. There are plenty of black men and latinos who are attracted to white girls. It’s just an issue of what a particular guy finds attractive. If a guy grows up in an area where pretty much everyone is white, it can go one of two ways. Either their early life’s experience will determine that he won’t be attracted to you, or being different looking than the girls they’re used to will attract them. If a white girl went to an African village where they see very few white people, the African men would react in one of those two previous ways as well. They would think she’s either ‘funny looking’ or ‘interesting looking’ because she’s different. Also, it could be a personality preference. If you are a particularly outgoing, slightly raucous woman, then maybe that’s why they’re not as apt to date you. I’ve noticed that black girls or latinas who are rowdy and loud and gutsy are more likely to be labeled as fun and outgoing, where white girls with the same traits tend to be labeled as obnoxious and annoying. Black girls and latinas that exhibit shyness seem to be characterized more as stuck-up and anti-social, where as a lot of white guys seem to think that shy girls are cute. If you spoke loudly and informally to a Japanese person (not descent as much as actual native status), they would probably not want to spend much time with you. This sort of behavior is considered impolite and undesirable in that particular culture. In some more diverse areas, the concepts of what is acceptable and attractive behavior is less divided. However, as much as you may be tempted to say ‘Why can’t they keep an open mind?’, you will need to keep something in mind. We are all products of our upbringing, like it or not. It’s very unlikely that a guy will say ‘Oh, she’s [enter ethnic group here], I don’t those girls’. Most of our decision whether someone is attractive to us or not is subconscious. If it’s just that white guys don’t talk to you in general, white guys appear to be more skittish around women, no matter what the woman’s ethnicity is. Black guys and latinos seem to be more confident around women for some reason. These are all generalized observations from my personal experience, and there are plenty of exceptions out there. If you really want a white guy to talk to you, strike up a conversation with him first. You might be surprised.

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Name : Kairuka32479, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : learning disability, Race : Half-English, Half-Puerto Rican, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 19, City : Poughkeepsie, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Student (attending 4 year), Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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