[John]

I’m a recently married man and couldn’t be happier in my relationship with my wife, however, I really enjoy porn. I use porn like many men do, as a visual and mental stimulus. Some people enjoy looking at art (painting, sculpture, etc). Well, I see naked women as art. I find nothing more beautiful than a naked woman. If my wife asked me to stop looking at porn, I’d have to say no. I don’t look at it to cheat. I don’t look at it so that when we’re together I can have another image in my mind. I look at it because I find it mentally stimulating. Occasionally I use the mental images when I’m masturbating, but I’m just as apt to use mental images of my wife when I’m masturbating (and BTW, if/when you become married, your husband will still jerk off, probably more often than now, but that’s nothing against you, it just happens). Porn has also helped me to become a better lover. I’ve been able to learn new positions and techniques through porn that, quite frankly, I’m just not imaginative enough to come up with on my own. The response to the new techniques has almost always been a positive one and is often accompanied by comments like ‘That was new! I really liked that. Where’d you ever come up with that idea?!’ So porn can be a great way of expanding your sexual horizons. You need to understand that men and women are two completely different animals and view sex and sexual things in different ways. We (men) see sex as 95% physical. Sure, when we’re with women (or men if that’s their bag) that we care about, the afterglow and pre-event tentsions are higher and it’s an overall more enjoyable experience, but that’s a mental thing and not a physical one. The physical enjoyment of a woman we love is no different than that of a one night stand. Lighten up and let the man have his porn. It might just keep his eyes from wandering and make your relationship not only stronger, but more intense and more varied.

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Name : John, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 34, City : Shirley, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : engineer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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