[Desty]

Monogamy is not something you’re excused from because of sexual orientation. Your partner may miss sex with men, but you may as well counter that you miss sex with other women – but by agreeing to be in a monogamous relationship you effectively lose your ‘right’ to that. Your partner may just be experimenting with bisexuality; maybe she has intimacy/commitment problems, which, believe me, I can sympathize with. But that’s a problem that’s due to me, not my sexuality.

I know plenty of bisexual people who can commit – and who argue that the greatest thing about bisexuality is that it allows you to act on love without the conventional barriers of sex. On the other hand, I know plenty of straight people who just can’t settle down. If monogamy in your relationship is an issue you have to confront (and it sounds like it is), you have to leave sexuality out of it – it’s not an accusation, and it’s definitely not an excuse.

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Name : Desty, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, City : n/a, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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