[David G.]

You ask an interesting question, and my answer is only one man’s opinion and not a be-all, end-all answer. But maybe men act the way we do…well, because it works. I was a complete, total jerk when I first went off to college. I didn’t care about anybody or anything except myself, and acted accordingly. Quite frankly, I’m damned ashamed looking back at those days. But you know what? I have NEVER since been as successful with women as I was then. (At least, judging by what I considered ‘success’ at that time.) Now granted…there were many beautiful, brilliant women who wouldn’t have a thing to do with me, to my great regret. But I almost never slept alone if I didn’t want to, and when you’re a young man fresh off at college, then sex is just about the only yardstick you measure things by. Stupid, of course…but I’d be a hypocrite to deny it. That’s one reason, I think, that so many guys are such utter jerks sometimes. Because…though it won’t work every time…it will eventually work if you keep at it. (There’s an old adage: Hit on 100 women at a bar, and you only need a one-percent success ratio to get laid that night.) And there are just so many women out there who somehow feel that if a guy is a real a**hole, he must have a reason to. I have always thought that if women could somehow get together and agree that you’d only pay attention to the kind, considerate men out there for a few years…you’d be surprised how many caring, nice guys started appearing. Warm regards, and hope things are going well.

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Name : David G., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 42, City : Atlanta, State : GA, Country : United States, Occupation : Teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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