[Cindy31937]

I can’t speak for an entire race of people, but as a black mother, here’s my take: I think it’s a cultural difference. Many black parents of all income levels strongly believe in the saying, ‘Spare the rod, spoil the child.’ It’s also a fact that an unruly, undisciplined black child will face harsher consequences in this society than a white child. Black children who misbehave in school are more likely to be labeled ‘hyperactive,’ or be suspended or placed in ‘special education’ classes. For this reason, I think black parents want to help their children understand the importance of following the rules. When I grew up, I was spanked with a belt and a green switch. I don’t use anything but a swat on the behind with my hand for my 8-year-old daughter. Even so, I only have to spank her a few times a year. But the result is the same: a more obedient, more disciplined child. I can’t defend the kind of beatings that leave lasting scars – that’s outright child abuse. But I believe in spanking a child who’s out of control and disrespectful.

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Name : Cindy31937, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : African Methodist Episcopalian, Age : 35, City : Topeka, State : KS, Country : United States, Occupation : Manager, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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