[Chuck]

It is very commendable that you care about the well being of your friend. But you can’t change him… all you can do is be a loving and supporting friend and remind him that he is worthy of being loved. It can take some of us a very long time to realize that not only do we want love, be we are worthy of someone elses love. When we come out of the closet, there is a lot of self-doubt, and it is through caring friends that we learn differently. It depends on the individual, and how much guilt he is dealing with. Ultimately, he needs to make the decision. If you berate his current boyfriend, you may only alienate tour friend… especially if he feels he has no where else to go. I would say… just continue to be a good friend, love him, and remind him what a wonderful individual he is. Hopefully, someday he will realize it too. When he does, the relationship issues will take care of themselves.

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Name : Chuck, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 49, City : Sacramento, State : CA, Country : United States, 

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