[Candice]

I believe that it doesn’t matter if you are gay or not. I think that straight people have the same issues of being friends or lovers with their friends. I had a best friend all through high school and college that was of the opposite sex. After about six months, he confessed that he had serious feelings for me. At that point, I had to decide if this relationship could go further as lovers, or should stay as friends. I chose the friendship, not because he wasn’t good looking or a great guy, but because my need for his friendship, and my inability to deal with the idea that we could lose this friendship. We became very close and even endured being miles apart at many times. The hardest thing about this chose was that I had to live with the fact that he had every right to move on and be happy with some other girl, and he did. Maybe your co-worker is feeling the same issues. She may also not want the responsability of being your first.

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Name : Candice, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Presbyterian, Age : 24, City : Las Vegas, State : NV, Country : United States, Occupation : cocktail waitress, Education level : 2 Years of College, 

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