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CP19181ParticipantI think it’s wonderful that you want to be sensitive about your girlfriend’s extra pounds. As someone who is overweight married to someone who is not, I can give you a bit of advice. Compliment her, including about her body, but never insincerely. Do not make comments on what she eats or how much. Do not suggest that she lose weight, but if she truly wants to do it for herself, be as supportive as possible. Do not insist on knowing exactly how much she weighs or what size clothes she wears. Whatever you do, do not make her weight a big issue. Just be natural. You said that you don’t want to talk about it with her, but if you do decide that you want to be more intimate and open about everything, I would suggest you start by telling her about some sensitive issue of your own: your stuttering problem as a teenager, your shyness, the abuse you suffered as a child, how you feel about being a minority, something like that. Maybe then she would feel more free to talk about her own struggles.
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