[Bruce]

Know that it reflects far more on them than it ever does you; especially in public. If their comments are in front of others those others will be judging them not you. The only negative opinions ever worth paying attention to are those that come from loved ones. If you don’t know them, then their view is irrelevent to your life. I hope you can find a way of accepting because you won’t change people you’ve never met when their opinion is formed so quickly and unfairly.

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[Bruce]

The items you’ve listed are owned by many thousands of people and don’t in themselves indicate anything more than an interest in spicing things up a little. S & M goes all the way from a little teasing all the way through to being a lifestyle. There’s plenty of reading to be done online… I would suggest starting somewhere like Castlerealm.com if you really need to read up. Safe, sane and consensual are the main points for many that are into this scene. It’s not about inflicting damage, and low self-esteem… it’s power exchange needing more trust and understanding between partners than you will find in most ‘conventional’ relationships. Good luck to you. I doubt you have anything to really worry about, but I understand your need to make sure.

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