[Banders]

I can understand you wanting to be discreet, because many woman can be sensitive when it comes to things such as oral sex. My advice to you isn’t to be so blunt as to say ‘I want more oral sex’. The fact that she’s your wife should make it easier to discuss this subject with her, but please remember….some women are more sensitive than others. Personally, I feel that if she is comfortable enough to give you oral sex as part of foreplay, then it will be easier to discuss this with her, but you have to do it in a sly/sensitive way so the next time she is going down on you she won’t be thinking of you saying ‘I want more oral sex’…..Explain to her that you enjoy engaging in oral sex with her and performing oral sex on her. Tell her that what she does turns you on so much, that it only makes you want her to let you go all the way while she’s pleasing you.Tell her its something you are curious about. Also, she may feel insecure or like she hasn’t been pleasing you all along after this conversation……So before you even think about talking to her, try this….Show her that you love her body and appreciate her(you should be doing this anyway)…by doing something special for her, caressing her, listening to her….etc; Most women including myself enjoy this as much as sex itself….give her oral pleasure and while she is giving you oral sex as usual, show your enjoyment and whisper something that indicates you want her to go further(you’ll have to come up w/ that on your own :)If she still doesn’t catch on, refuses, or seems to ignore you or as a lot of women do, pretend not to hear you(great female tactic)…..then you should have the conversation (above) w/ her…..usually people are guided into doing things in the heat of the moment, so I would try pleasing her and doing as little talking about it as possible, first. Being the conversational creatures that some women (including myself) are, we tend to hang on your every word……and if we are in a bad mood, we might analyze it to the point of getting mad at little things……so be careful and most of all……relax!! Make her feel special (and nothing too out of the ordinary at first….she’ll think it was a ploy)……just enjoy eachother…..communication is important…physical as well as verbal….and the key to trying anything new is finding a comfort zone….

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I agree w/ all of this…..the term ‘white bread’ is like ‘plain jane’ or ‘goody-two-shoes’ w/ a wholesome suburban twist…..it reminds me of someone/something so plain it blends in, so pure it lacks signature expression, and so normal it seems rather boring…. in a way that is accepted, but often ignored….I do not belive this term is meant to be racially offensive….it is simply stating that someone/something….is somewhat like the tv moms or dads from back in the day…..June Cleaver from the show ‘Leave it to Beaver’ for example, would be considered ‘White Bread’, but we love her all the same.(Not to label the character as boring,or forgotten)

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Name : Banders, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 18, City : a. county, State : SC, Country : United States, Occupation : student, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, 

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