[Amy31611]

I’m not one of those women. My best friend still loves telling people how he met me: I walked into the coffee shop, sat down, introduced myself and then said ‘and you’re damn sexy.’ My husband, same thing. Boyfriends, I have always made the first move and asked them out. On the other hand, I’ve been led on a lot – mostly by guys who say they ‘don’t know what they want’. I know. They want a cheerleader, perfect body, not much brains, barefoot and pregnant, you name it. If you aren’t exactly what the media says they should want, or you’re too tough, too bad.

I would question what kinds of women you’ve been hanging out with. One of my boyfriends (who, out of all of them, I treated perfectly because I was trying to) ended up leaving me to continue chasing another girl, who had no interest in him and already had a boyfriend. Later he told me he didn’t realize he was sabotaging himself. I could have told him. He’s still somewhat an acquaintance of mine.

I would ask you this question: if a girl is tough (I’m in kung fu and I weightlift), if she’s not perfectly skinny, etc. why do guys ignore her or treat her like ‘one of the guys’? That said, I’ve heard that there are women who are very silly. They tend to be the above-mentioned ‘perfect girls’. In high school, I never understood why my fellow ‘geek’ types would go for cheerleaders, when I knew they’d never be happy just because of the girl’s great bod. After all, would she ever talk to them about the X-Men?

Also, the men I have been forward with are often terrified of a woman doing such a thing. So I suppose my answer is: you’re looking in the wrong places. Is your best friend a girl? Try her.

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Name : Amy31611, Gender : F, City : Duluth, State : MN, Country : United States, 

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