[Adrian]

Sexual orientation is a very personal concept, and it is not up to any of us out here to tell you that you are or are not a certain way. If you feel emotionally, physically, sexually attracted to this woman after having previously had only crushes on guys, then maybe you are bi. Maybe you are straight and happen to be attracted to the features of this one person. The way I see it, labels are not important and sexual orientation is on a spectrum, few people are solely gay or straight, but some mix of the two. Perhaps you find yourself somewhere without a label, and that is just fine. Love knows no boundaries, nor limits. You are a person, you are attracted to people who may or may not be male or female. I would say, talk to your friend, tell them your feelings and thoughts, and don’t feel the need to immediatly put a label on yourself. Talking has helped so many people work out the confusion.

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Name : Adrian, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 16, City : Davis, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : student, 

[Adrian]

I think that in general, the reason you feel that gay men act femine, is because that is how the media portrays them. there are plenty of ‘masculine’ gays, just as there are ‘feminine’ male straights and ‘masculine’ female straights, but because of all the pressure from society, straight men can’t express their feminine side without being labled gay, and gay men, seeing only feminine gays on TV etc., feel that they need to be girly if they are attracted to other men… but I’m not an expert, so… I also just noticed the gender spefification on the optional section, with only male and female.

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Name : Adrian, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 16, City : Davis, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : student, 

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