[jennny]

my husband wants me to sleep with a black man he brought home a rather large realistic toy called bam and it is the most painfully exciting thing to use . should i call his bluff ? anyone else been in the boat both men and women please reply

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Name : jennny, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : seattle, State : WA, Country : United States, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class, 

[ShellyStrauss Rollison]

First, why does he want you to sleep with a black man? Second, what will it do to your marriage if you do it? Third, how will you deal with the issue of jealousy? Fourth, is this a one-time thing or will it be ongoing? If a one-time thing, what happens if you enjoy it too much to “give it up”? Fifth, how will you find this black man? How will you protect yourself from STDs? What if HE becomes emotionally attached to you and/or your husband? Sixth, what if your husband wants to join in? How will that affect his sense of who he is or your feelings about him? Seventh, does “casual sex” fit into your ideas about what a marriage constitutes? How will you redefine your marriage with respect to casual sex? Eighth, what if the black man you find isn’t as “large” as your reali

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Name : ShellyStrauss Rollison, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 49, City : New Alexandria, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Minister, writer, activist, CNA, draftsman, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

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