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What do men really think of women who are willing to sleep with them on a first date? Every guy I have ever dated has asked, yet seemed relieved when he was shot down. Does a man look down on a woman willing to have sex with him when she barely knows him?
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Name : Denise, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 29, City : London, State : NA, Country : Canada, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper class,Personally, I would not look down on or think less of such a woman any more than I would think poorly of man who had sex on a first date. Nor would any intelligent man, in my opinion, unless it’s for religious reasons. Remember, too, that just because it’s a first date doesn’t mean the two people barely know each other. They may have known each other for some time but started dating. Most of my relationships became sexual very early on–if not the first date then shortly thereafter–and one such relationship has lasted now for nearly 20 monogamous years.
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Name : Rick29943, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, City : Springfield, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,It is my belief that if a woman is willing to sleep with me on a first date, she is not really a woman I want to date. Sure I will ask – I am, after all, a male – but I don’t really expect her to say yes. I feel that any woman willing to have sex on the first date with me is willing to have sex with anyone, and, well, I just don’t want to be involved with that type of woman.
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Name : Yves, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jehovahs Witness, Age : 36, City : Sturgeon Falls, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Solicitor, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,What do men think? Yippie! That’s what they think. That’s a sign of compatability: they both want sex, and they’re honest and mature enough to pursue what they want. Men who judge you and keep a score card will do so for the run of the relationship. How many of those ‘relieved’ men are still around today?
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Name : Carter32395, Gender : M, City : Seattle, State : WA, Country : United States,It’s definitely a double standard. Although I certainly want sex on the first date, I always think more highly of a woman who doesn’t give it up so easily. It’s not fair, I know, because all things being equal, a woman should be able to get her rocks off if she wants, just like a guy. Unfortunately, things aren’t equal. I absolutely have higher esteem for a woman who takes her time. ‘Messing around’ on the first date is fine, because you know you’ll eventually get sex, but going all the way right off the bat generally puts that woman below one who doesn’t. All of my friends would agree on this. There are women you date, and there are women you sleep with. Rarely do these paths cross. Sorry.
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Name : Ric-M30039, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 30, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I have also wondered about this question – so now I have a follow-up question – how far is ‘too far’ when does it cross the line?? Is oral sex okay? Is it just intercourse that drops your opinion? How do we know when to stop if we don’t want to risk losing the guy?
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Name : Sue, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 26, City : Thunder Bay Ontario, State : NA, Country : Canada, Social class : Middle class,I think it depends on how the date went and how compatible the two people are. Without knowing more, I wouldn’t be able to say that just because a girl slept with me on the first date I wouldn’t respect her. If everything really clicked and it just seemed natural–cool. Now, if she pulled out ALL the stops sexually and our date wasn’t quite spectacular–I’d drop that girl like a bad habit.
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Name : Gregory-H21603, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 23, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College,Well, my now-fiancee and I made love on our first date. It just seemed so right, because we are so compatible in so many ways. Of course, our first date had been going 8 hours by then…
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Name : G-ZA, City : JHB, State : NA, Country : South Africa,My opinion about females who put out on the first day is that they are just skanks who care about no one not even themselves.Men who do look for these particular girls are even lower than than the female cause while they’re ‘enjoying’ themselves on what happens to be the first night they wont think about who eles has had it on the first night.
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Name : Shavonnie Scott, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Age : 18, City : las vegas, State : NV, Country : United States, Occupation : model, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,To the men who say they have less respect for a women who puts out on the first date- Do you lose respect for yourself when you put out on a first date? Do you lose respect for yourself for being a hypocrite about sex on the first date? Do you lose respect for yourself because you degrade yourself by having such sexist beliefs as a women who has sex on the first date is not good enough to be your girlfriend? If a women who puts out on the first date isn’t the kind of girl you want to be with then why do you have sex with her on the first date? Do you lose respect for your male friends when they talk about first date sex? Do you think a women will have less respect for you for putting out on the first date?
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Name : Holly, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 25, City : St. Louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,
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