[Mohammad]

Can women have an orgasm without oral sex? I can have an orgasm more than once during sex, but my girlfriend is still not having one, and I think it is unfair for her.

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[Jacqueline-C20984]

Of course it is possible for a woman to climax without oral sex, but every woman is different. Some women go through their whole lives without climaxing once. Others climax multiple times during every sexual encounter. For women, sex is as much an emotional experience as it is a physical one. Be patient with her, try talking about what she likes and try out different things. Don't concentrate on achieving an orgasm, just enjoy being close, and take your time. The climaxes may just sneak up on her.

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[Jonathon]

Can your girlfriend have an orgasm by herself? If she can, it means you just need to be open with each other. And have patience. What turns her on? Do you ever just focus on giving her pleasure without needing her to do anything to you? Try that. It worked with my girlfriend. She was concentrating so much on helping me orgasm that she couldn't focus on enjoying it herself. And never ask a woman if she's close! Like the other lady said: I think women usually need to be in the mood, and that seems to ruin it. Last comment: Does she feel completely comfortable with you? I had a girlfriendo once who was pretty self-concsious, and she was to worried about what I thought of her to let loose and have fun.

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[Jen30967]

Without a doubt women can orgasm without oral stimulation. As a matter of fact, I have rarely achieved orgasm this way. A better question might be, has she ever orgasmed? If so, try letting her be in the driver's seat, and by all means take things slow. A woman generally needs more time to gear up than a man does. Don't worry so much, but I think your sensitivity toward her needs indicates a great future for your intimate life together.

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[Vince]

It is very important to know that there are two types of orgasms. 1) Clitoral orgasm is the orgasm that occurs to oral or manual stimulation on the clitoris. 2) Vaginal orgasm will occur during intercourse or penetration. Some women I know can only achieve clitoral orgasms and not a vaginal orgasm. In that case, it is nearly impossible for a woman to achieve an orgasm during intercourse. That may be the issue here.

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[antics]

We men are taught that women don't really like the porn-movie-style rough pounding, but I found to my surprise that if I really drill my fiancee deep and hard, she can have an orgasm from vaginal sex only. You have to be really fit and have the stamina to do this, because you need to pound her for an extended period of time, and it can be tiring, while you also have to hold off your own orgasm. You have to make sure she likes it first, though, so thrust into her sharply a few times to see if she likes it, and if she does, do it hard. You might be surprised.

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