Why are women attracted to men who treat them bad?

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    MikeJ
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    Why is it that women always run to the men that are assholes or abuse them? And why can't they get out of these relationships?

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    ShirleyAvery
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    Unfortunately, a lot of women grew up in dysfunctional homes where they were not well treated, so they consider that normal. Unless they get therapy to change, they probably won't go for nice guys. These other women have LOTS of other problems. Look for other types of women. Also, ask yourself if your grooming and general appearance are good. You don't have to look like a male model, but a good haircut,neat clean clothing plus daily baths and tooth brushing are imperative. Just Curious

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    Mara
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    "tooth" brushing? LOL! What are you implying? How do you know he doesn't have more than just the one tooth :-D

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    JerryS
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    If your partner has a manipulative personality, it is easy to get sucked into a state called co-dependence. I come from a very "normal" family background, yet I got sucked in twice. My partners were not abusive, but one was compulsively promiscuous and the other was an alcholic. In both cases, I wound up so intertwined with their problems that I lost myself.

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    Name : JerryS, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : New Britain, State : CT Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
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