[Lili]

How do all you white men feel about dating black women? I'd especially like to hear comments from Scandinavian guys.

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Name : Lili, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Caucasian/ African, Religion : Atheist, Age : 18, City : Helsinki, State : NA Country : Finland, Occupation : student, Social class : Middle class, 

[justin27087]

i'm not a big dater and there aren't a lot of blacks in my immediate circle of freinds. there is, of course a specific social context that inter-racial relationships exist in which undoubtably involves some discomfort, but i can't see a little discomfort preventing me from hooking up with a black girl if we clicked and everything. but like i said before, there isn't a lot of casual platonic co-mingling of blacks and whites, so talking about dating a black girl is sort of a dry, theoretical exersize.

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Name : justin27087, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, City : chicago, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper class, 

[Happygal33]

Thank you, Lili for opening up this platform for dialogue. I, too, am of BEAUTIFUL mixed decent, namely Caucasian and Black. This isn't technically a response that provides an answer, but I wanted to show my support for the curiosity! :) For some unknown reason, I've never been approached by a Caucasian man in a personal manner. Occasionally, I do catch one glancing, but it always stops there. I'm as baffled as anyone that I've discussed it with, and no one can come up with any sort of theory. I'm venturing to say it's because I look so ambiguous, my features aren't strongly White or Black, but moreso Hispanic. Perhaps Caucasian men don't want to deal with trying to figure it out?

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Name : Happygal33, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/Caucasian/Asian/Native American, Religion : Buddhist, Age : 30, City : Atlanta, State : GA Country : United States, Occupation : IT, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[Jussi]

I think that most of black women are very beautiful. Just like black panthers. It's just shame that here in Finland is NOT too many black ladies. I'm looking for black girlfriend.

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Name : Jussi, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 27, City : Helsinki, State : NA Country : Finland, Occupation : Desingner, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Upper class, 

[Larry]

To me the colour of skin really doesn't matter if the attraction is there... I must admit that I've never dated a black woman, but I certainly wouldn't run away if such a possibility should arise some day. It's just that I don't know any black women, I don't work with any, there aren't so many of them in the night life and so on... It's a shame really. Anyway, in each colour there is beauty, perhaps a bit different kind, but it's there. So wonderful.

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Name : Larry, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Helsinki, State : NA Country : Finland, Social class : Middle class, 

[k]

I'm a white guy of Scandinavian descent, and in my opinion, black women are beautiful, warm and sensuous. In my experience, they are more real.

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Name : k, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 32, City : minneapolis, State : MN Country : United States, 

[Tommi]

I find women of African descent more attractive than Caucasians. It's the curviness of their bodies, plus they take care of their looks. The thing that worries me is that most black women I see are strict Muslims, and I, an atheist, am afraid there would be some cultural collisions. I'm willing to try, though.

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Name : Tommi, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 22, City : Helsinki, State : NA Country : Finland, Occupation : student, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[James]

I'm fairly light-skinned, (more than I would like sometimes), and I'm American, with mostly Irish and German heritage. I'm quite willing to date outside of my race, religion, culture, income-level, etc. I do prefer women whose skin is not 'too dark', (or for that matter, not 'too light'), which is of course relative... Since you are not living in America, and are asking for responses from around the world, it would be pretty pointless for me to say anything in particular about the cultural differences between whites and African-Americans or African immigrants.

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Name : James, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : Learning Disability, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Independent Catholic, (not Roman Catholic), Age : 21, City : Rochester, State : NY Country : United States, Occupation : p/t college student, p/t retail clerk, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class, 

[Matt]

I'm a white guy who has been on a few dates with black women. On average, I can't say I have had worse or better dating experiences with people from any particular ethnic group.

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Name : Matt, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 25, City : Oxford, State : GA Country : United States, Occupation : Engineer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Leroy Armitage]

Most white men don't think about dating black women on a regular basis. There are a couple of different reasons for this. First, there aren't that many black women who show interest in white men, or at least not that I have ever encountered. Second, most white men seek certain traits that seem to be lacking in most black women. We seek thin, attractive, intelligent, polite women (we tend to look for girlfriend/wife material rather than a booty call). Most black women (not all) are overweight, uneducated, obnoxious, loud, and they seem to have this wierd tendency to wag their head back and forth while they talk as if this somehow helps to get the point across. I suspect that these are the same reasons why many black men go for white women as well. I hate to be so bluntly honest, but white men (wether or not they want to admit it) around the world feel the same way as I do.

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Name : Leroy Armitage, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 31, City : Binghamton, State : NY Country : United States, Occupation : Shipping Supervisor, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Erik]

For me, dating a black girl would be a dream, because I love black girls. Many, many Scandinavians do - at least Norwegians. Here, all the white Norwegian guys drool over Halle Berry, Beyonce Knowles, Tyra Banks, Naomi Campell, Traci Bingham, Christina Milian etc. They're dream girls here. Black skin is considered cool, interesting, sexy, different (in a good way) by many people.

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Name : Erik, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 22, City : Arendal, State : NA Country : Norway, 

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