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I’m a white female, and I definitely don’t ‘put out’. But I think it’s all races, that have girls that will put out, it just depends on the girl. I work with blacks, whites, and Asians, some put out and some don’t. It might just be in your situation that you have encountered more white girls.
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Name : Liz22829, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 21, City : Memphis, State : TN, Country : United States, Occupation : Hairstylist, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Yes, I think it is true that we do. In general it seems that black women and also Mexican women as well as other races here in Arizona are more restrained when it comes to having sex… here, though, the teen pregnancy rate is probably equal between the races. White girls are not necessarily taught the total importance and consequences of fast and sexual relationships. I am a white female and I think it has to do with rebellion toward faith in a church, and due to the fact that some white parents have trouble expressing themselves more to their children.
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Name : Leslie-W, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 21, City : Mesa, State : AZ, Country : United States, Occupation : nurse assistant, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Lower middle class,Come on, let’s face it: white girls are more open. Sistas do stuff too but I have a good mix of friends even though my area growing up was mostly white. Look at porn. It took a bit for sistas to start doing some of the things others were. However, I am open. I was also called white girl all my life. I think everyone should be open and try what they want. Then we wouldn’t have to deal with Down Low, etc.
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Name : Jt, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Age : 33, City : long beach, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Growing up in central florida, there was a high rate of teen pregnancy among black girls, and a much lower rate among whites, and even lower among Hispanics. Of course this doesn’t necessarily mean that white girls are having less sex than black girls, maybe it’s just they are using protection more often. Recently I taught high school (grades 9-12) in the same town in which I grew up. About 98% of my students who had children were black, several already had 2 kids with a third on the way. This expression of sexuality seemed socially accepted within the black community, even almost expected, which I found unfortunate, since the girls weren’t even 17 yet and didn’t have the chance to find out who they were before assuming the role of Mom.
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Name : S28521, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 29, City : Central Florida, State : FL, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I believe the higher rate of teen pregnancy is more along class lines than race. Middle to upper class teens are less likely to have teen pregnancy than lower class teens. It just so happens that a higher percentage of blacks and Hispanics are also happen to be lower class.
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Name : Davita P., Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 22, City : Bristow, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : auditor, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,In a society where black people have been oppressed, raped and abused you will find us with the highest rate of most self destructive sexual behavior statistics. When assessing the rate of teen pregnancy we must use our common sense and look at the rate of abortions as well. However, the pregnancy rate has nothing to do with the amount of sex you have, because if you have the resources you can prevent pregancy w/ several options. There has always been a focus on beauty, wealth and acceptance in white society. It’s only natural for ANYONE with this mindset to do whatever they can to accomplish this goal. IE..Girls Gone Wild
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Name : Nicole, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 20, City : Tallahassee, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : College student, Social class : Lower middle class,I can’t say whether or not white girls ‘put out’ more than girls of other ethnic backgrounds, but I can say this: First off, I am 22 years old and white, so I feel I am ‘qualified’ to make this observation — I’ve noticed this in my female friends as well as myself. I think that a lot of the intercourse that takes place on our part (not all, obviously) is due to insecurities and low self-esteem. I know that I’ve been ‘talked into it’ before by a guy feeding my insecurities. To me, it seems like white girls have lower self-esteem and more insecurities than girls from other backgrounds. I think this might account for at least some of the large amount of sexual activity. It’s well known that boys and girls tend to think differently about sex — boys like it, and girls feel loved through it (not always, mind you!), and when you have insecurities and low self-esteem and someone ‘wants you’….well, you tend to go along with it. I’m not condoning or condemning it, but that’s just been my observation.
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Name : Kristen S., Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 22, City : Buffalo, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Social class : Middle class,I am a woman in my 30s. I have had extensive, close contact, over long periods of time, with white women (military, work, college, etc). And, in my experience, white women are QUICKER to hop in the sack than women of other etnicities. However, just because white women seem to be quicker to hop in the bed, doesn’t mean that they put out MORE than women of other ethnicities. It just means that they seem to put out SOONER.
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Name : R30352, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 30 +, City : Greenville, State : SC, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I don’t think black girls put out earlier as a racial group. What I think is happening is that so many black children are being raised by single parents, mostly moms. These kids are not being supervised properly and are being exposed to more sexuality at an early age, i.e. TV programs, videos, maybe mom is bringing home multiple men in her quest to find the perfect husband and father. This is not just a black activity but as always we get hit harder by any social difficulty more than nonblacks.
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Name : Lisa, City : Los Angeles, State : CA, Country : United States,I believe that white females are a little more free spirited than females of other races. Every white female has a stereotype: reds, brunettes and blonde. Not to judge all of them, because all of them don’t carry themselves this way, but some do want to live up to their name. When I turn on my TV (GIRLS GONE WILD) or even talk to my white female friends all I see and hear is how white female love sex to the extreme. These young women are willing to do anything. My girl friends believe that sex is something to enjoy and ‘who cares,’ while I believe it is something to embrace and share with a love one.
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Name : Dominique, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 21, City : Greenville, State : MS, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Hmm. I have not noticed a race/sexual precociousness link. In my experience, this is based more on economic class and individual self esteem. My senior year in college, I roomed with three other white girls. Three of us were virgins, and the other had had sex with one guy (after arriving at college). But we grew up in middle class homes and found ourselves at an Ivy league school, so this is not a fair sampling. On a separate note: I am willing to hypothesize that among Hispanic girls, there might be more Catholicism, which would inhibit early sexual practice.
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Name : GM, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 25, City : Somerville, State : MA, Country : United States, Occupation : Engineer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Since the rise in HIV/AIDS among young black women has become an EPIDEMIC and more than half of the black babies in our country are born to single mothers; it seems that black girls are being just as sexually active!
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Name : Shelly, Gender : F, City : Jacksonville, State : FL, Country : United States,Maybe you and your friends are just really attractive to white girls. Be Kind, for everyone is fighting a great battle." -Plato
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Name : AmyM, Gender : Female, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 42, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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