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I for one am very open. There are some very attractive women out there of all races. Although I do tend to find myself attracted to darker women. Albeit latinas, black, asian, indian (native too), and middle eastern. Although being too dark is a turn off. From what I see here on a major university campus is that black women tend to stay with black guys. They are not only loud, but rude, obnoxious, and ghetto. To find a a lighter colored black woman with intelligence, a little quieter, and a little more sophistication is very hard. I think though that they come here on scolarships for poorer minorities. They converse in ebonics. There are some black girls that I would really like to ask out, but because of what I stated above I don’t.
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Name : Jon27114, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 27, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Occupation : graduating student, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I am married to a Black Woman and I will admit it was curiosity that led me to Black Women. Initially with any relationship it is a physical thing because you can’t see a personality. I love my wife with all of my heart because of who she is not what she is. I read once that out of 350,000 interracial marriages 250,000 are black men to white women so as you can see a white man/ black women marriage is a small percentage of interracial relationships. Unfortunatley the media TV and Newspapaers propogate racism which is unfortunate and as soon as we all realize that we are one race the HUMAN one the better.
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Name : Scott, Gender : M, Age : 37, City : Indianapolis, State : IN, Country : United States,For me, I don’t date black women because I’m not attracted to any black women physically.
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Name : Matt22048, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 19, City : Sacramento, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I am a white man who lives in the black (and increasingly Hispanic) community. What I have found attractive in black women is hair and eyes. Of course, personality plays a big role, too.
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Name : Eric25214, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : Epilepsy, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 25, City : Kansas City, State : KS, Country : United States, Occupation : IT professional, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,I can understand why you think Black/Hispanic women are hysterical. the reason why is because we do not take no crap from anybody. Instead of keeping in our emotions and one day trying to kill ourselves, or our children; we express what is on our mind. white men can not handle black/hispanic women because we are independent and strong.
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Name : faye, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Age : 15, City : brooklyn, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : school, Education level : Less than High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,I would only date women who were well educated (BA/BS at least), intelligent and attractive. I’ve seen many black women that I find attractive (almost any girl in a Nelly video), but how do you know if they’re well educated or intelligent unless you talk to them? It seems easier to approach women from your own race than from a different race. I’ve only dated two black women, and they were both from other countries (Ivory Coast and Suriname). They also had very different worldviews than any african-american women I knew. Come to think of it, the reason I dated them was because they approached me. In any case, it seems that concerns about racial/religious identity are most prevalent among the lower rungs of the socio-economic ladder, and that the more intelligent/higher educated/better employed people would and should intermingle to a greater extent than they do. I’ve read several articles about the difference of educational achievement between black women and black men and how this trend has led to many black women being single because they don’t want to date below their social status and they don’t want to date outside of their race. But why not? If there is a surplus of well-educated black women and a shortage of successful black men, couldn’t black women look to asian or white men as substitutes? I’ve seen various explanations for why successful black women would rather be single than date outside their race, but none were very good. I just reread the question and realized that I didn’t answer most of it…as far as what is physically attractive, I think symmetry is the most important thing…curves are good, but some women of every race will confuse obese with ‘big and beautiful’. Tyra Banks is ridiculously hot, but I would take Aisha Tyler or Condi Rice over Tyra any day.
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Name : David Smith, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 25, City : Houston, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Consultant, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I can understand where you are coming from. As a Black woman, I am attracted to Black men. The characteristics that black men have is what does it for me. I do see that there are some white men who have appealing features i.e. Brad, Eminem, Joey Lawrence, but for me, there is absolutely no physical attraction there. I would be more attracted to your average black man than to the ‘finest’ white boy. So your tastes are fine, and thank you for explaining it in a non-derogatory manner. Can you say WHY you prefer slimmer bodies and features? I’ve never understood that.
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Name : JAMARA, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 32, City : hampton, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : exec asst, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Well you should come to the west coast(California) , I see black women with white men of all different shades. As a matter of fact I see just as many black women with white men out here as i do black men with white women.
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Name : bmichelle, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, Age : 28, City : Los Angeles, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper class,What do you mean about not liking their hair when in fact mostly(maybe all)Americans of African heritage in this country are racially mixed(like myself) and mostly white and Native American mixture that goes far back to slavery days. Since we are multiracial, we come in every shade, eye color, hair texture and color, facial feature, and body shape. Some of us look Caucasian and other races(not me, I look African-American, but have medium light brown skinned due to my mixed ancestry). You might find a sista who look like Pamela Anderson-Lee that you may mistaken for a ‘pure’ white woman until she tell you her mixed background especially if she or her family are from Creole Louisiana. Plus, be careful some our brothas or sistas who don’t look black and ashamed of their African heritage might lie to you by passing for another race. But, won’t reveal their true heritage. Since the slavery days, we have a very long history of mulattoes (mixed with black and white ancestry) who look white and passed as whites to get benifits in this racist society. Remember some Caucasian-looking mulattoes, not all. My point is that we black Americans(or mixed-race/mulattoes, lol) have different range of hair textures due to our mixed ancestry. From kinky/tightly-curled hair to straight hair. So is it the hair texture that bothers you when it comes to my sistas, or what? Just to let you(anyone else ho see my reply) know that I have a website on blonde bombshell actress, Heather Locklear having black heritage which makes her a sista, too. Do you find her attracted?
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Name : Papi, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight/Bi-Curious in a celebate way, Disability : ED, Race : Mixed-Race descent(black, white, & Amerindian), Religion : Catholic, Age : 23, City : Houston, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class,I’m upset that you would insinuate that light skinned Blacks are not normal. I’m even more upset that you would use derogatory terms such as ‘high-yellow’ and ‘mulatto’. It sounds like you have more of an issue with White men not wanting you rather then Black women as a whole. Perhaps it’s the derogatory language you use towards women in your own ethnic group that makes White men not want you.
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Name : Martina22170, Gender : F, Race : Hispanic and Black, Age : 21, City : Washington, State : DC, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College,I would be attracted to , and have been attracted to a few black women as I have progressed through manhood. Some of the physicaly traits that are particular attractive to me are… full lips skinny body medium breasts small toosh. Skin color would not matter and neither do eyes. Here is the reason that I have not ever dated a black woman: All of the black women that I have met and talked with and have been in a position that I could have asked them out I have been in relationships. And just as it is hard to ‘cold call’ and just walk up to any girl and ask her out, I always felt that asking out a black woman in this way was even more intimidating because she would not think that I was good enough in comparison to the black men that she had dated. Such suave characters and fantasies of black women that I could imagine would be men like shaft, or lawrence fishburne, or denzel washington…all of whom that a goofy white boy could never compete. And just to give a dating history: I have dated all white females accept one chinese-american and two puerto rican-american, all of which i knew as friends first.
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Name : Chris Baker, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 26, City : Summerville, State : SC, Country : United States, Occupation : Graphic Artist, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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