[Bruce-G]

From the time a male commences intercourse with a woman, what is the average amount of time for the man to achieve orgasm? The woman? I know technique, excitement levels, etc., make this question challenging, but I’d like to hear answers.
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[Victor]

I’ve discussed this with a few of my male friends and will share my information. You are right about excitement level playing a part, although for me it was the reverse of what seemed logical. When I first started dating my wife I could last for well over an hour or even two. Now its more like ten minutes during the week and twenty on the weekend. My feeling is that I may be selfishly just trying to get off faster now. Most of my friends tell me they last no more than five minutes, but one generally goes for half an hour.

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[Scott-M28176]

During the actual thrusting part of my experience, I usually will come and ejaculate in about fifteen minutes. This time does vary depending on excitement and conscious determination to prolong the actual thrusting activity.

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[Mish]

Having had a fair number of male partners, I’d say it really varies with the man. Some men can come only a few minutes into the act, while others can make love for literally hours. However, I’ve found the key is stopping, changing positions and paces – to make love for a long period of time. I’ve found that as men get older, they learn other techniques, positions, and styles for pleasing a woman besides just pounding away, which usually results in quick orgasm.

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