[Peter B.]

Are there any tell-tale signs that someone might be gay? I’m 19, gay and live in a small town where homosexuality isn’t really tolerated. My problem is that there is absolutely no gay community, and I have the worst ‘gay-dar’ imaginable. I have a feeling I know a few people who might also be gay, but I’m just not sure. Any hints?

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Name : Peter B., Gender : M, Age : 19, City : Fairview, State : MT, Country : United States, Social class : Middle class, 

[Mark Bentley]

You might try little things like figuring out a way to watch ‘Will & Grace’ with someone you think might be gay. Humor around a subject can sometimes help get someone talking. I know the chat rooms at http://www.gay.com and planetout are pretty sparse for Montana. I just looked at a map, and you are in the middle of a lot of space! Maybe you’ll be heading out of there to go to college in a bigger town? There is a Metropolitan Community Church in Great Falls, but that isn’t too close. It is just flat out tough in a small town. I always advise caution, because things can sure get out of hand. Gay-dar is refined by living in the gay neighborhood of a big city. I’ve found that a lot of it is based on eye contact and subtle responses (smile, wink, raised eyebrow, etc.). Prolonged eye contact with a straight guy, however, isn’t good!

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Name : Mark Bentley, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : UFMCC - Cathedral of Hope, Age : 39, City : Dallas, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : Financial analyst, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[A.I.]

Hey guy. It’s not a surefire way, but I personally don’t know of any straight guys that will walk in the opposite direction of another guy, and turn around and look him up-and-down once the other guys’ back is to him.

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Name : A.I., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Humanist, Age : 21, City : East Windsor, State : NJ, Country : United States, Occupation : Network Engineer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Alka Seltzer]

Get in the car and go to the nearest city with some sort of Gay life and get your suspected ones opinions:)

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Name : Alka Seltzer, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : American Indian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 42, City : Atlanta, State : GA, Country : United States, Occupation : Transportation, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 

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