[ShirleyAvery]

In high school, dating may have involved kissing, petting, etc., but were weren’t expected to ‘go all the way’ no matter how far we went up to the point of intercourse. Why is it that as adults, women are are considered ‘teases’ if we give more than a friendly kiss or two without intending to have intercourse or offer a ‘__job’ to the guy? Women also get very sexually aroused by petting, etc, but don’t necessarily consider ourselves teased if the guy doesn’t sleep with us. Does it have to be all or nothing? Can’t men enjoy foreplay without intercourse?

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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[ShirleyAvery]

I’m a middle-age female & wondered exactly the same thing. I was shocked to learn that more than one guy considered me a tease because we petted, etc. and didn’t go all the way. My male counselor suggested that if a woman explicity tells a man upfront that there’s to be no intercourse or ***job, it’s OK. I’d like to get men’s reaction to that?

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Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO, Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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