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- The first time I heard about peepholes being used for sex by gay men at reststops, I became extremely turned on. I am a straight woman and mother of two who has had gay/lesbian friends but no lesbian fantasies or desires. I just get off watching and downloading pictures of guys having sex - especially group sex. I admit I have several fetishes typical of straight women: Threesomes with men, and maybe even a father/son duo or brothers with me. But nothing gets me turned on like this. I even had sex with a bisexual man and told him to tell me what he did to this man. I still rate this as the best sexual experience I've ever had. So what do I call myself? What term would describe my fetish, which I equate with straight males watching lesbians? It also seems to be more rare for women to want to watch men. Is this so?
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Name : Nikky20071, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Religion : Buddhist, Age : 27, City : Knoxville, State : TN Country : United States, Occupation : College Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College,I think you are a fag hag (i.e. a woman who likes being with gay men). That is not to say fag hags are all motivated by interest in the sexual activities of gay men. (I think many have other, social, motivations.) What I am saying is many fag hags are heterosexual, and maybe there is sometimes a sexual motivation.User Detail :
Name : Priscilla30260, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 24, City : Sydney, State : NA Country : Australia, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I don't think my response is as deep as yours, but I too get something out of watching men together. Why? I don't know - it's just a turn-onUser Detail :
Name : CC, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Pentecostal, Age : 24, City : Vallejo, State : CA Country : United States,While this is a deviation from the norm in terms of sexual turn-ons for women, I disagree with the categorization of you as a fag-hag. A fag-hag is a woman who seeks out gay men as her primary source of friendship, often to the exclusion of relationships with heterosexual males. There are many reasons women would seek the company of gay men - we tend to be less judgmental of the way a woman looks, for instance, leading to the stereotype that frequently fag-hags are large women. Anyway, what you are dealing with is a simple fantasy, and it's not that unusual. I have a straight female friend who finds gay pornographic videos highly erotic; she loves the way the men look and probably finds the men on gay porn better looking than the men on straight porn. This is the equivalent to men who enjoy looking at two women involved in lesbian sex. As to the glory-hole fantasy at rest areas, I'd leave that as a fantasy, ma'am. The State Police generally frown on it, and it would involve a woman being in a men's room, which in itself is probably illegal. I suppose you could always go to an adult video arcade - they have such peepholes. I just don't think you'll find that many gay men to fulfill your fantasies there (at least not willingly).User Detail :
Name : onanov, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Unitarian, Age : 43, City : Iowa City, State : IA Country : United States, Occupation : Graphic Designer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I, too, am turned on by stories and photos of men having sex with men. It seems to me that it is taboo because whatever does not turn on straight men is considered 'wrong,' so women are not supposed to be turned on by this. I would think more women would like this because there are two MEN to watch. And for once, we're not the one being penetrated! I don't consider it a 'fetish' because as far as I'm concerned, sex is sex. It's just a fantasy, just like dressing up in a French maid outfit is a fantasy.User Detail :
Name : Makia, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Age : 36, City : Chicago, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I've met and talked to many women who eroticise the idea of gay men having sex, at some of the more 'fringe' dance parties in Sydney. (At some of the more 'vanilla' gay parties such cross-gender behaviour is frowned upon.) I don't mind the idea of all and feel sort of flattered that there are women who feel this way. Not sure I could perform for them though ! Like a previous poster, I don't think of such women as fag-hags- I think that is more of a social behaviour than an erotic interest.User Detail :
Name : Ben S., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 31, City : sydney, State : NA Country : Australia, Occupation : Public servant, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,I also find sex between two men very arousing. What I find ironic is that whenever I have told my straight male friends this, they recoil in disgust, while at the same time they say how sexy and arousing it is for two women to have sex. I once had a very in-depth conversation with three of my straight male friends, and my female friend and myself were saying how hot it was for two men to have sex. Our male friends said it was impossible for us to find it arousing because there wasn't the same tenderness there is between two women. They could never see our side of the coin and couldn't grasp that it is the same to us as watching two women is to men. It's all about fantasy and arousal.User Detail :
Name : Michelle20566, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 31, City : Elwin, State : IL Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,Just wanted to let you know you're not unique. I have always been turned on by viewing two men (I used to 'borrow' my gay male friends' 'Blueboy' magazine and spend a good hour with myself and the magazine). I also used to enjoy going to high school and college wrestling championships. It seemed somewhat sexual to watch two guys rolling around on the ground on top of each other. I think I would very much enjoy watching gay men have intercourse; it seems very erotic. I bet there are many other straight women who feel the same, but do not openly express it. Our society is homophobic, especially when it comes to gay males (they're relinquishing their power over females, especially physical and sexual power. These are bottom-line, ultimate expressions of power that control women). Thus, a culture in which sexual acts between gay men are eroticized would be very threatening. That is why we females know, without anyone telling us, that we are not supposed to openly admit to getting turned on by two men. However, I can't deny the truth, and I'm glad you didn't. I hope other women who find men sexually interacting to be erotic will respond.User Detail :
Name : Annette, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 41, City : Boise, State : ID Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Once while surfing the net looking at various images of men and women I came across a site littered with gay porn. I had never seen anything like it but found myself extremely aroused by the images of group sex. I have always had the fantasy of having sex with two guys but never followed through. On the other hand, the thought of two women turns me off. I can tell you this: I don't feel so bad knowing I'm not the only one who finds these images arousing.User Detail :
Name : Pam19867, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Christian, City : Montgomery, State : AL Country : United States, Occupation : secretary, Education level : 4 Years of College,it turns you on because it is a secret sexual act..most sexual acts that are secretive are a turn on..User Detail :
Name : Damien27269, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 33, City : Sydney, State : NA Country : Australia, Occupation : Delivery Driver, Education level : High School Diploma,Hello, ladies! I'm not into sex with men and I'm not into sex with women until marriage. But, I'm bi-curious towards men when it comes romance and love. Since I'm single, I want to French-kiss, cuddle, touch, flirt, and caress a man. It would VERY HOT to have a STR8 WOMAN or STR8 WOMEN to watch me make out with a guy. If you like man2man romance and affection, please email me. I want to get know a lot of str8 ladies with this gay male fetish, and I hopefully I meet a woman like y'all in my area to have a relationship with. Plus, she would get to see man2man romance when we are together. If you have msn, webt.tv or hotmail, feel free to add me to your MSN messenger so we chat online.User Detail :
Name : Papi, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight/Bi-Curious in a celebate way, Disability : ED, Race : Mixed-Race descent(black, white, & Amerindian), Religion : Catholic, Age : 23, City : Houston, State : TX Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class,Well,I'm str8, but bi-curious in a non-sexual way meaning I don't want to have sex with a guy! But, I wouldn't mind making out witn a guy like French-kissing him! That's would be cool! :) I love it when I hear about str8 women who want to see a man be with another men! There are known as girlfags! http://www.girlfags.com !If any girlfags wanna chat with me, please email me!User Detail :
Name : Papi, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight/Bi-Curious in a celebate way, Disability : ED, Race : Mixed-Race descent(black, white, & Amerindian), Religion : Catholic, Age : 23, City : Houston, State : TX Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class,I'm in a minority of females that enjoy gay porn as well as straight porn. In gay porn, the guys are generally younger and better looking, you get 2 cocks for the price of one and sex is sex is sex. It's all arousing. I think another reason I can enjoy gay porn is that when watching straight porn, part of me is aroused, but another part of me is turned off by the way women are treated like objects. With gay porn, that's obviously not an issue. Just CuriousUser Detail :
Name : ShirleyAvery, Gender : F, Disability : none, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Jewish, Age : 52, City : st. louis, State : MO Country : United States, Occupation : writer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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