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I’ve noticed there are many web sites on peeing fetishes. Why is it erotic or a turn-on to drink pee, be peed on or watch someone pee? I just don’t get it.
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Name : Jade, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Spanish, Religion : Catholic, Age : 16, City : Sydney, State : NA, Country : Australia, Occupation : Student, Social class : Upper class,A friend of mine loves a woman to pee on his face after sex. Beats me.
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Name : Natalie20263, Gender : F, City : San Francisco, State : CA, Country : United States,You can’t explain fetishes, hence the name. Some people like being kissed on the neck, some people like being peed on. This is actually an ancient sexual ritual – it dates back hundreds of years (as far back as I know of). Shit happens – or pee happens, depending on your fetish.
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Name : Bri, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Age : 23, City : Albany, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Counselor/Student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Join the club. The peeing fetish has a lot to do with dominance and submission – or in other words, power. It is basically another form of bondage and S&M, which is the transference of power in its purest form, sexually speaking. For some people, this type of role playing is what it takes to get them off (so to speak) or heighten their sexual experience.
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Name : David S., Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : Columbia, State : SC, Country : United States,I don’t know, but I do find watching a woman pee quite a turn-on. I don’t understand why though. It just is. However, I don’t want to watch her rid herself of any other bodily wastes. And I really, really don’t want her to pee (or anything else) on ME!
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Name : Wayne24389, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Baptist, Age : 43, City : Parsippany, State : NJ, Country : United States, Occupation : marketing, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I forget the source of the theory, but one way to look at sexuality is: the exotic becomes the erotic. This is probably linked to the use of clothing in most societies to hide genitals, so exposure of something normally hidden often happens before sex. Anything involving sex is directly acted upon by natural selection, so we may have evolved to link exposure with eroticism. Also, people go to the toilet behind closed doors, so exhibiting the behavior in view of others is potentially erotic. That it employs the genital region is another factor. Of course, it takes some adaptation of the ‘normal’ sexual reflexes to be turned on by it, but humans are very plastic things behaviorally.
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Name : Andy, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 31, City : Sydney, State : NA, Country : Australia, Occupation : Programmer, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class,A layperson’s opinion: I believe, in general, fetishes come from an experience during one’s formative years that links sexual arousal with some non-sexual act. Perhaps one’s first experience with sexual arousal is linked with a urination experience. (walked in on an older sister’s friend while she was peeing, that kind of thing). Once that connection gets made, it isn’t broken. It is usually the first, most basic and strongest sexual experience, and the person then develops a fetish in an unconscious attempt to recreate it. We all have fantasies – the things that most arouse us. For most of us, they’re to do with genuinely sexual images – from girlie mags, etc. Some people had that short-circuited.
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Name : Dave25994, Gender : M, City : Toronto, Ontario, State : NA, Country : Canada,I think one reason some men find it interesting is that it’s so different from the way they pee. In men’s bathrooms, guys stand shoulder to shoulder, whip it out and let it fly. When they go camping, or anything outdoors, they let it fly right in the open, and sometimes on each other’s shoes! (Just as a joke, though.) But with women, something so familiar starts streaming from some secret, unseen place, like a mystery fountain. Nobody usually can see a woman pee, not even the woman herself. Seeing a woman pee is like being let in on a secret.
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Name : Nathan20143, Gender : M, Race : Black/African American, Age : 40, City : Seattle, State : WA, Country : United States, Occupation : Tech, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Fetishes often deal with power, the exotic or the forbidden. These are quite related topics: For example, we’re taught that it is good to be strong, independent people, which makes being submissive culturally forbidden. Never exploring a role, e.g. a woman who has never sexually dominated a man, makes it unfamiliar and exotic. Similarly, the exotic is often erotic (as evidenced by the proliferation of Asian, black, Russian, Indian, Interracial, etc. pornography) partially because of the perceived barriers involved in crossing cultural and ethnic boundaries.
In fact, we find many common fetishes touched by these categories: dominance/submission, bondage/discipline, sadomasochism, blindfolds, rape fantasy (either side), spanking, chastity belts, anal sex and oral sex all have some aspect of power play. Any pornography that is based on ethnicity or old age or dwarfism is interesting, at least partially, because of the exoticism involved. Finally, such themes as incest, transvestitism, interracial sex, piercing/tattooing or bestiality are broadly forbidden acts in ‘polite’ society.
It should therefore come as no surprise, when we address your particular question, that watersports express all three fetish facets that I’ve discussed here. While urinating, we feel intensely vulnerable and exposed (which puts observers in the position of power). The visual event is different for men and for women, which makes it strange, unknown and interesting. Urinating while being observed is shameful and jarring for adults, something that is seldom done. In brief, watersports allows for power play, is exotic and is forbidden. We should expect that it can have strong appeal for some.
Can’t help you figure out scat, though; that stuff is just sick.
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Name : Leslie22879, Gender : F, Race : Asian, Age : 23, City : Troy, State : NY, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper class,I don’t really get turned on by peeing stuff. When I first saw some porn with pissing and stuff, I was intrigued and turned on somewhat, though. However, I’d never want to be peed on or pee on someone else. My theory on why people get a turn on about it is that it’s something they aren’t supposed to do. Admit it, there are lots of things people do because it’s a thrill to go against the norm. A lot of men get really turned on at seeing a girl’s thong riding up her back, or from seeing a girl’s panties up her skirt. You could place hardcore porn and upskirt porn in front of them and they would pick the upskirt even though it’s less attractive usually and they can’t even see any body parts. The thrill comes from it being risque.
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Name : Rajah, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 22, City : Watertown, State : WI, Country : United States, Occupation : student/health services, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I am into pee. I drink my own pee and other people’s pee. I also find it a turn-on to watch women pee, especially outdoors, and I like to be peed on. I think this type of play is an extension of my sexual desire. It is extreme and very rewarding for couples when both members are into it. It is also a very strong form of exciting escapism. When alone I like to climb into my empty bathtub naked, lie on my back and pee all over myself and also into my mouth.
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Name : Stevo, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 33, City : Kent, State : NA, Country : United Kingdom, Occupation : self employed, Social class : Lower middle class,How can you put a peeing fetish with bondage or S & M? It is not violent. Peeing is natural. Watch animals. Pee is very important to them. I find nothing harmful or disgusting about it, and I don’t think it is a fetish, either. I have no experience as of yet with it and am not really looking for one, but I find it is a natural part of us.
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Name : Poppy, Gender : F, Age : 46, City : Balema, State : NA, Country : swiss,I am an openly gay male who was introduced to the world of ‘watersports’ about two years ago. Previous to my first experience I too thought it was just sick and twisted. I was renting an apartment at the time and decided to let another gay friend share the apartment with me as I had recently lost my job and needed the money. One evening we were watching a porn flick that my roommate had rented that had a scene with a guy peeing in another guy’s mouth. We got to talking about it and my roommate said he had always been curious about it and wondered if I would like to try it. I hesitated for a couple of days, then agreed to give it a try. Both of us spent the afternoon pounding down as much water as we could drink- I think we both managed a little over a gallon. We held off urinating as long as possible, then when we could no longer stand the pressure, we both stripped down to our underwear then went and stood in the shower. We started by wetting ourselves in our underwear. Surprisingly, we were both very turned on by the warmth of the urine flooding our underwear and running down our legs. (We continued to drink more water as we experimented). We then urinated on each other’s bodies- again the warmth of the fluid running over our bodies was amazing. Our next step was to urinate in each other’s mouths. We had drank enough water to make our urine very clear, making the taste very mellow with a slight tang. I took his penis fully into my mouth and he let loose. I let most flow down my chin, swallowing probably half his flow then continued to suck him until he ejaculated in my mouth. He did the same for me. The sexual gratification along with the ‘thrill factor’ of doing something so taboo was amazing and we continue to enjoy our fetish to this day.
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Name : Mike, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 42, City : Ben Lomand, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,I DON’T KNOW HOW TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION OTHER THAN TO SAY THAT I ONCE, 20 YEARS AGO, LIVED WITH A WOMAN WHO WAS VERY SUBMISSIVE. SHE HAD A DIFFICULT RELATIONSHIP WITH HER FATHER. DURING SEX SHE ALWAYS CALLED ME SIR. AFTER INTERCOURSE, SHE WOULD HAVE ME EJACULATE ON HER FACE, IN HER MOUTH AND THEN LAY IN THE BATH TUB WHILE I PEED ON HER FACE AND IN HER MOUTH. I GUESS SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST TOTALLY SUBMISSIVE. I ENJOYED IT AND SO DID SHE. WHY NOT?
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Name : JOE30612, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 60, City : SEATTLE, State : WA, Country : United States, Social class : Middle class,my ex once told me that it reminds him of a woman squirting cum, which really turns him on. Although I think it is partly a power thing, since he also was turned on by watching a woman wet herself while clothed. I think it is a combination of things, and different for different people. Power, how different it is from themselves, the secrecy of it….
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Name : Margot, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 20, City : Brunswick, State : ME, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,
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