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Some men may have rape fantasies, but few act them out. Iit takes a level of frustration and anger that few men possess. The second question is easier. The answer is that men do indeed see women as sex objects, because that’s what they are. Women are human beings and as multifaceted as anyone, but whatever else we are, as women or men, we are also sex objects. It’s not a good idea to forget that a sex object is also a person, but for all that, women (and men) are sex objects. As for porn, it excites the imagination and stimulates the libido.
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Name : Walter24363, Gender : M, Religion : Christian, Age : 44, City : Orlando, State : FL, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College,There was a study done in the 1980’s by a well-known feminist anthropologist, Peggy Reeves Sanday. She surveyed some 95 tribal cultures. Of those cultures, 47% were ‘rape free’ cultures in which rape was very rare, and severely censured when it occurred. Only 18% of the cultures Sanday studied were ‘rape prone’ cultures, where sexual violence was the norm. Sanday concluded – and I agree – that men are not ‘natural born rapists.’ Rather, the culture in which one grows up influences one’s attitudes toward love, sex, and relationships. Men who grow up in cultures where women are respected and powerful do not rape.
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Name : Crystal, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 39, City : Oakland, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Because I am male and have not had the urge to rape, no, all men do not get the urge to rape. Porn is fun because sex is fun. I don’t see that whether we think of women as sex objects (we all don’t) has anything to do with watching porn. There is no cause and effect here.
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Name : Bill, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Episcopalian, Age : 33, City : Huntsville, State : AL, Country : United States, Occupation : programmer, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,no. i find the marxo-feminist dogma that all male sexuality is rape to be incredibly offensive, not to mention hysterical. i used to know people, many men in fact, who adhere to that. my common response was, ‘so, your boyfriend; is he a good rapist? rape must be fun if you continue to date men.’ as far as the porn goes, there are some disturbingly popular trends in porn like the demeaning ‘money-shot’ or the ‘barely legal’ trend, but porn is, at the end of the day, just a utility for masturbation. just because men view women as sex objects in this context doesn’t mean that we can’t or don’t view women as fully actualised human beings in other contexts. being objectified sexually is a role we all seek in the appropriate context. i work out and dress myself on the hopes that i can be objectified sexually by women. hopefully with the result of being invited to have sex. this of course is made difficult if marxo-feminist college proffessors are brainwashing every woman that goes through their class with an irrational fear of male sexuality. it’s not male sexuality that needs to be oppressed, but female sexuality that needs to be liberated.
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Name : paris19872, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 35, City : st. paul, State : MN, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,No, all men do not get the urge to rape! Rape is a phenomenon produced entirely by our societal imbalances and hierarchial systems, which are ingrained in everything we say and do. There are many cultures throughout the world in which rape is such an alien idea that the thought has never even occurred to them. There are cultures in which women are dominant instead of men, and to rape a woman would be desecrating the life-giving force, which they practically worship (I wish I could name these cultures, but I took that class a long time ago, sorry). Rape is NOT something ingrained in male humantiy from birth. It is a result of our environment, which teaches us that women are objects to be used. If all men respected women as themselves, rape would disappear from the human behavioral repertoire completely.
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Name : Elle, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 20, City : Gainesville, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : College student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Well first of all, mother nature takes over our sexuality. A women does the exact same. No one can stop our mind from thinking and no one can stop our hormonic sexuality from making our mind think. That doesn’t neccessary mean that we look at each other as sex objects, we just like to think of what that might be like if we experience it. Some of us though want to experience it and goes to that step to do so. So again I say Mother Nature has much control over our sexuality……
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Name : Joey, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 21, City : Middletown, State : CT, Country : United States, Occupation : Champions, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,No, not all men get the urge to rape. Men watch porn becasue men’s sexual stimulation is largely visual. Pluse, we like to see naked women 🙂
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Name : Drew25685, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 30, City : Motown, State : WV, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,The cavalier attitude of men with regard to sex, rape, porn, etc. can be traced back to boyhood. You see, while parents teach girls to value their bodies, to treat their bodies as ‘a temple’, boys are not taught this. We teach our daughters that they shouldn’t allow just any man to enter their vaginas, yet we don’t teach boys the importance of not entering just any vagina. We don’t teach boys that THEIR bodies are temples as well. We don’t teach boys to be discerning as respects the women they choose; instead we slap them on the back for every sexual conquest, tell them that ‘boys will be boys’, and shove a condom in their hands. The result? These boys will grow up to be men who only view women as a receptable for their semen. They grow up lacking respect and consideration for women. And this manifests itself through the purchase/rental of pornography, the patronizing of strip clubs, and a general hostility and disrespect toward all women. I would imagine that this is why many men do not like women, as people…how can you possibly like women, when you don’t even view them as fellow human beings??
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Name : RhondaOutlaw, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 41, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Account Representative, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,As far as I understand it — the phenomenon of prison rape is largely unrelated to homo porn or repressed sexual desire–it seems to be a violent act intended to establish a decisive order of dominance.
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Name : Nate, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 41, City : Detroit, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Unemployed Entrepeneur, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Of course I see all women as sex objects. Except the ugly and fat ones. (Well, maybe a couple of the fat ones.) But rape, gosh no! That’s what BHT is for!
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Name : john29661, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 20, City : serious, State : CT, Country : United States, Occupation : couch potatoe, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,some i gues but not, yes i hav had the urge as much as i dont like it but it can be there why do u ask
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Name : hummer, City : scotlans, State : NJ, Country : United Kingdom,Rape is NOT about sex. It’s about demeaning and violating women. It’s about control, and taking away our power. Men who rape hate women, feel we’re inferior, and suffer from a warped sense of self and manhood. I’m sure they were abused, and probably had a father that was a wife beater.
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Name : Dwanny, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 53, City : Springtown, State : TX, Country : United States,
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