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Not all men get the urge to rape. Some may get off on the fantasy of doing it, but that doesn’t mean they’d get off on actually doing it. I’m not even sure rape should be viewed from such a sexual standpoint. If sex is defined as a sharing of pleasure, rape certainly doesn’t fit this description. It seems to me that rape is much more about having power over someone else. Yes, sometimes men see women as sex objects. Hell, sometimes women see men as sex objects. But that doesn’t mean all men see all women as sex objects. Sure, some men might see all women as sex objects – but the world is full of sh**ty people and we shouldn’t judge a group based on a few losers. Some women turn themselves into sex objects, like Brittany Spears. At any rate, just because men may watch porn or view some women as sex objects, this does not mean they see all women as sex objects.
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Name : Matt, Gender : M, Age : 22, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States,From the responses so far, by now you know that very few men, on a percentage basis, feel the urge to rape, and I’m another who doesn’t. But of course we think of you as sex objects! What are we supposed to think of? Wall sockets? Tangerines? Coffee cups? No, when I think about sex, the object I have in mind is a woman who doesn’t object. (Get it? Little play on words, there.) Where many men go wrong is in thinking of them as ONLY sex objects. More highly evolved men recognize that, in addition to their delightful potential as sex partners, women are also capable of all the things men are. As for porn, most men are easily stimulated by the visual, whereas (I hear) most of you women like a good romance novel.
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Name : craig c., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : neuter, Disability : neuter, Race : martian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 50, City : racine, State : WI, Country : United States, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class,Some men may have rape fantasies, but few act them out. Iit takes a level of frustration and anger that few men possess. The second question is easier. The answer is that men do indeed see women as sex objects, because that’s what they are. Women are human beings and as multifaceted as anyone, but whatever else we are, as women or men, we are also sex objects. It’s not a good idea to forget that a sex object is also a person, but for all that, women (and men) are sex objects. As for porn, it excites the imagination and stimulates the libido.
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Name : Walter24363, Gender : M, Religion : Christian, Age : 44, City : Orlando, State : FL, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College,no. i find the marxo-feminist dogma that all male sexuality is rape to be incredibly offensive, not to mention hysterical. i used to know people, many men in fact, who adhere to that. my common response was, ‘so, your boyfriend; is he a good rapist? rape must be fun if you continue to date men.’ as far as the porn goes, there are some disturbingly popular trends in porn like the demeaning ‘money-shot’ or the ‘barely legal’ trend, but porn is, at the end of the day, just a utility for masturbation. just because men view women as sex objects in this context doesn’t mean that we can’t or don’t view women as fully actualised human beings in other contexts. being objectified sexually is a role we all seek in the appropriate context. i work out and dress myself on the hopes that i can be objectified sexually by women. hopefully with the result of being invited to have sex. this of course is made difficult if marxo-feminist college proffessors are brainwashing every woman that goes through their class with an irrational fear of male sexuality. it’s not male sexuality that needs to be oppressed, but female sexuality that needs to be liberated.
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Name : paris19872, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 35, City : st. paul, State : MN, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,No, all men do not get the urge to rape! Rape is a phenomenon produced entirely by our societal imbalances and hierarchial systems, which are ingrained in everything we say and do. There are many cultures throughout the world in which rape is such an alien idea that the thought has never even occurred to them. There are cultures in which women are dominant instead of men, and to rape a woman would be desecrating the life-giving force, which they practically worship (I wish I could name these cultures, but I took that class a long time ago, sorry). Rape is NOT something ingrained in male humantiy from birth. It is a result of our environment, which teaches us that women are objects to be used. If all men respected women as themselves, rape would disappear from the human behavioral repertoire completely.
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Name : Elle, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 20, City : Gainesville, State : FL, Country : United States, Occupation : College student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Well first of all, mother nature takes over our sexuality. A women does the exact same. No one can stop our mind from thinking and no one can stop our hormonic sexuality from making our mind think. That doesn’t neccessary mean that we look at each other as sex objects, we just like to think of what that might be like if we experience it. Some of us though want to experience it and goes to that step to do so. So again I say Mother Nature has much control over our sexuality……
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Name : Joey, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 21, City : Middletown, State : CT, Country : United States, Occupation : Champions, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,No, not all men get the urge to rape. Men watch porn becasue men’s sexual stimulation is largely visual. Pluse, we like to see naked women 🙂
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Name : Drew25685, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 30, City : Motown, State : WV, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,The cavalier attitude of men with regard to sex, rape, porn, etc. can be traced back to boyhood. You see, while parents teach girls to value their bodies, to treat their bodies as ‘a temple’, boys are not taught this. We teach our daughters that they shouldn’t allow just any man to enter their vaginas, yet we don’t teach boys the importance of not entering just any vagina. We don’t teach boys that THEIR bodies are temples as well. We don’t teach boys to be discerning as respects the women they choose; instead we slap them on the back for every sexual conquest, tell them that ‘boys will be boys’, and shove a condom in their hands. The result? These boys will grow up to be men who only view women as a receptable for their semen. They grow up lacking respect and consideration for women. And this manifests itself through the purchase/rental of pornography, the patronizing of strip clubs, and a general hostility and disrespect toward all women. I would imagine that this is why many men do not like women, as people…how can you possibly like women, when you don’t even view them as fellow human beings??
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Name : RhondaOutlaw, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Lutheran, Age : 41, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Account Representative, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,As far as I understand it — the phenomenon of prison rape is largely unrelated to homo porn or repressed sexual desire–it seems to be a violent act intended to establish a decisive order of dominance.
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Name : Nate, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 41, City : Detroit, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Unemployed Entrepeneur, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Of course I see all women as sex objects. Except the ugly and fat ones. (Well, maybe a couple of the fat ones.) But rape, gosh no! That’s what BHT is for!
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Name : john29661, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : New Age/Metaphysical, Age : 20, City : serious, State : CT, Country : United States, Occupation : couch potatoe, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,some i gues but not, yes i hav had the urge as much as i dont like it but it can be there why do u ask
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Name : hummer, City : scotlans, State : NJ, Country : United Kingdom,Rape is NOT about sex. It’s about demeaning and violating women. It’s about control, and taking away our power. Men who rape hate women, feel we’re inferior, and suffer from a warped sense of self and manhood. I’m sure they were abused, and probably had a father that was a wife beater.
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Name : Dwanny, Gender : F, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Pagan, Age : 53, City : Springtown, State : TX, Country : United States,
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