Letting the secret out

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    Brice
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    I am in a situation where I have a friend, more of an acquaintance really, and his girlfriend and I have fallen in love, and she has since left him. How long should we wait before we tell everyone? Our other mutual friends may not approve. How much longer do we keep hiding this?

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    Name : Brice, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 36, City : Portland, State : OR, Country : United States, Occupation : MD, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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    Laura-A22964
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    It would be best if you talked to the friend first – if you value anything about your relationship with him. Honesty is always the best thing in any relationship. If you aren’t honest with one another, you learn to not trust each other, and that is even worse. One important thing: don’t get defensive about it. If he asks you if you were going out with her while he was, be honest, even if it may hurt.

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    Name : Laura-A22964, Gender : F, City : Sauk City, State : WI, Country : United States, 
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