For Christmas my boyfriend got a video camera as a present. After some discussing we decided to videotape ourselves having sex. We now watch it all the time and it really turns me on. Is this common? Do other people to this? Do you like to watch yourself while having sex?
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Name : Ella, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 19, City : Victoria, British Columbia, State : NA Country : Canada, Occupation : secretary, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Lower middle class, I don't think it's that common. I've never done it, but I'd be glad to watch yours if you want to send me a copy!
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Name : Rocky29601, City : Springfield, State : IL Country : United States, I don't think it is uncommon. Look at the recent celebrity sex videos that have become public. Personally, I don't see the appeal of watching myself have sex.
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Name : Rick29824, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, City : Springfield, State : OH Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I have never done it, but I don't see why this would be a particularly weird or uncommon thing. Don't people watch porn videos all the time (or download, or buy magazines, or...?). OK, so I don't, but from that limited perspective I think it's not uncommon and not weird. In fact, it's probably healthier to watch yourselves than some random stranger!
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Name : Jennifer30849, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 38, City : Madison, State : WI Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, I have never done this in the 28 years I've been married. I'm in my second marriage of 4 years. My wife might entertain the idea (thanks for your question). My suspicion is that it would improve any 'open-minded' relationship, as the two partners would certainly put their best 'performances' forward. They probably would act out more of a passionate, enlightened sense just to get a good 'take'. So, even though you did not ask if I approve of this idea, I believe it is good for the marriage. By the way, most likely the couples who would do this are in the minority, say 20 to 30 percent. I would be interested in an expert's statistical percentage of how many couples do or would do this.
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Name : Michael White, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 55, City : Bedford, State : TX Country : United States, Occupation : Landlord, freelance artist, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, I think it is relatively common. My wife and I have done it a couple of times. Most of my friends have done it at one time or another too. It's not too shocking. Go for it!
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Name : Jon29220, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 39, City : St. Louis, State : MO Country : United States, Social class : Middle class, 
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A fair number of people enjoy taping themselves, and in my anecdotal experience, women are more likely to be a bit exhibitionist. I would say it's relatively common, particularly among those people of an age to have grown up with readily available and inexpensive video equipment.
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Name : JO, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Other Pacific Islander, Religion : Atheist, Age : 32, City : San Francisco, State : CA Country : United States, Occupation : Technology, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, My wife and I have taped ourselves making love several times over the last few years. To us, lovemaking is a beautiful act in a multitude of ways, a banquet for all the senses. Seeing ourselves loving each other enhances our closeness and helps us appreciate this aspect of our own beauty as human beings. I've always wondered why our society considers watching a loving couple having sexual intercourse as a disgusting, perverted activity, while it's perfectly acceptable to watch human beings get mangled in a war movie or a crime drama. Am I missing something?
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Name : Ray, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : Parkinson's Disease, severe arthritis, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Unitarian, Age : 56, City : Waukegan, State : IL Country : United States, Occupation : Teacher, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, yes, my wife and i like to film ourselves in the act.. it seems to me that making the film is more of a turn on than watching it later....
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Name : steve22567, City : manchester, State : NA Country : United Kingdom, Sure other people do this.. most women are not that easy to talk into it though. Watching yourself is fun but watching someone else is better.. wanna send a copy? oh ok
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Name : jim, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 24, City : port huron, State : MI Country : United States, Honey, check the internet. You'll see there are hundreds if not thousands of people who videotape themselves (not to mention a famous Hilton). And many even trade their videos. I guess they get bored seeing themselves too often. And it's also why cheap and sleazy hotel rooms have mirrored walls and ceilings - it's not for the application of makeup before you get out of bed.
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Name : Jesse, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 28, City : Huntington, State : WV Country : United States, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, It sounds like a lot of fun, but I would hate to see myself having sex. I think it is really cool that you have the confidence to watch yourself, though.
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Name : Sarah21671, Gender : F, City : Rochester, State : MN Country : United States, Only 10% of people tape themselves having sex. You are unusual in that you turn yourself on. when people watch porn, they are watching others, not themselves. Most people do not get turned on by even looking at themselves in the mirror.
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Name : Craig, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : Concord, State : NH Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, It's more common than people like to admit. Maybe because they're afraid to be labelled as 'dirty' or 'slutty'. Just be careful it doesn't fall into the wrong hands. Personally, I think taping yourself having sex is a bad idea. People think they perform like a porn star while they're in bed. Then when they see the tape, they realize they look more like two sea cows going at it. If it works for you, by all means, enjoy yourself. But unless you're a porn star, taping yourself is generally a bad idea. Enjoy the real thing instead. It's more fun.
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Name : Taz, Gender : M, Age : 33, City : Detroit, State : MI Country : United States, Social class : Middle class, Whatever turns you on, but I wouldn't unless you are beyond certain those videos won't turn up elsewhere - like your folks' VCR accidentally, or, at worst, online thanks to an angry ex-boyfriend. It happens, as Paris will tell you, so think about that first.
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Name : Dan28902, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, City : Trenton, State : NA Country : Canada, Education level : 4 Years of College, 
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