Going down – can’t get back up!

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    Missy20507
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    To men: When your lover is giving you oral sex, do you expect her to bring you to ejaculation, or can it be just one part of a ‘love-making session?’ Do men see oral sex as something that has to be completed? My husband loves when I give him oral sex. But once I start doing this for him, nothing else can happen until he reaches orgasm. This isn’t every time we’re together, but I’ve realized that once I go down, I’m probably not coming up for a while. Most women I know think of it as a PART of sex, not the beginning, end and middle of sex.

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    Name : Missy20507, Gender : F, City : Somewhere, State : PA, Country : United States, 
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    Me21907
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    I don’t always expect my wife to bring me all the way orally. However, sometimes, that’s what I want. I guess what I’m getting at is that is isn’t a requirement all the time, and that it depends on the situation. Sometimes it is just s nice diversion on the way to something else, and sometimes it is the destination.

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    Name : Me21907, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Age : 27, City : San Francisco Bay Area, State : CA, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class, 
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    Geo
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    My former fiance insisted on performing oral sex. Although pleasurable, I knew it would take forever for me to reach an orgasm that way. I thoroughly enjoyed giving oral sex to her – and she would always reach a quick orgasm or two. Maybe she thought it was her obligation to return the favor. I see lovemaking as foreplay, intercourse and afterplay – and oral sex, of any kind, is part of the whole experience.

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    Name : Geo, Gender : M, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 34, City : Grand Rapids, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Professor, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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