[D-James]

I like to go to gay bars to gawk. I’m a straight female who finds nothing more erotic than two men together. I get to watch them dance, kiss, etc. Also, the drag queens warm my loins. I love to go with my boyfriend, get all aroused and then go home with him. Is this OK, or offensive?
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Name : D-James, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Age : 22, City : Spartanburg, State : SC, Country : United States, 

[Kathy26670]

I would have to say it depends. Keep in mind that being gay and going to gay clubs/bars is not all about sex and arousal. People go there to meet, connect, chat, feel free to be themselves and have the great relief of being able to assume, for once, that the person they are talking to is gay and knows what it is like being gay in this society. If you are going someplace with a country club atmosphere and being blatantly sexual with your partner, that is offensive. If you are at a sex club, and everyone is all over everyone, more power to you, I say. Take your cue from how others behave. Also, have the discretion to not out people you see there in other environments.

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Name : Kathy26670, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, 

[echo]

i don’t see anything wrong with it personaly, well, i don’t know seeing as i’m straight, but i personally don’t see why it would be a bad thing, i mean its pretty cool to be able to go the a gay bar as a straight person and feel comfortable.

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Name : echo, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Agnostic, City : da;;as, State : TX, Country : United States, 

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