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My friend makes a lot of comments suggesting he has an interest in homosexuality. He told me about a study about men’s finger-length and orientation, he’s made joking remarks about becoming bisexual, he pays special attention to gay questions in Savage Love, he ‘jokingly’ appreciates pictures of the male body. He also likes to embrace and lie on my bed with me in his arms, to caress my back, put his hand on my buttocks, and he lets me touch him, too. But then he also demonstratively appreciates beautiful women in public, and has been with his first girlfriend for eight years, and had a couple of sexual dalliances with other women. My question is, do straight men normally engage in limited sexual contact with other men? Or is it more likely that he’s a fence-sitter, as I am?
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Name : Want to know more, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 35, City : Seattle, State : WA, Country : United States, Occupation : Instructor, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I know you must feel a little weird that your friend is sending you mixed messages. As a straight white woman, I do not know any straight males who would let you do what you said your friend lets you do. I did date a guy who was very feminine (I thought). I was so in love with him, but he would never kiss me or even try to do what most straight males would do if a woman were sleeping next to him. I respected him but jokingly asked if he might be gay. He giggled and said ‘no’ at the time, but I later found out that he came out of the closet. Maybe you should talk to your friend about it, and let him know your feelings; you might be surprised.
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Name : Teriza, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 21, City : douglasville, State : GA, Country : United States, Occupation : government, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Hi, i Know you must feel alittle wierd that your friend is sending you mixed messages. As a straight white woman, I do not know personally any Straight males who would let you do what you said your friend lets you do. I did date a guy whom was very feminine(i thought)and i was so in love with him, but he would never kiss me or even try to do what most straight males would do if a woman were sleeping next to him. I respected him but jokingly asked if he might be gay, he giggled and said ‘no’ at the time, but i later found out that he came out of the closet. I am sorry your friend is sending you mixed messages, maybe you should talk to him about it, and let him know your feelings, you might be surprised!
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Name : Teriza, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 21, City : douglasville, State : GA, Country : United States, Occupation : government, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Sounds like your friend is coming around to the bi side. Ever hear the saying ‘Every joke has a simple truth’? These jokes aren’t the ‘knock knock’ kind but the kind when you’re friend is joking around. Maybe he doesn’t realize it yet but any man who lays around with another man in his arms touching his buttocks is not 100% straight. I’m just wondering why you think you’re straight when you said yourself your a fence-sitter.
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Name : Michael-Allen20632, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 29, City : New York, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : Multimedia Developer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Upper middle class,Your friend obviously feels some comfort in discussing the male body and sexual orrientation with you in extensive detail. With my experience, I’d have to say he is either very comfortable with the established relationship with you and is bisexual (and very possibly coming onto you) or he is gay and not yet out of the closet. Straight men often have fantasies about sexual conduct with other men, and will act them out given the right circumstances. Be careful engaging in any sexual relations with him, though, until you get your facts straight (no pun intended) and understand one another.
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Name : Rajadove, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Catholic, Age : 18, City : Pomona, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,I have a friend just like that. He just got married and claims to love women, yet he also loves to have me massage his back. These massages involve him removing his shirt, and I get to touch anything and everything above the waist. I stroke his hair, back, hands, fingers and occasionally into his pants to massage the top inch or two of his butt crack. Never a comment from him, except how much he enjoys it. He used to let me play with and/or touch any part of his body, including his penis, until he got married. He’s just 21, and I think in serious denial. Can a straight guy be THAT open?
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Name : Curt, Gender : M, Age : 34, City : Seattle, State : WA, Country : United States, Social class : Middle class,I actually have a friend similar to you. We’ll lay in bed and talk and at some point during the conversation we’ll be embraced with my head on his chest and him stroking my hair, or facing each other and rubbing each others backs. Sometimes he has a hard on but we act as if it wasn’t there. Then we’ll fall asleep together like that and I’ll wake up in the middle of the night with his hand down my boxer shorts, but I’ll feign sleep. Then we’ll wake up and act as if nothing has happened and go to the mall or something and then he’ll mention something about a woman’s butt and how good it looks or something like that. I really think it is just when two guys are really comfortable together and are really close friends, do they do stuff like that.
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Name : Here-it-is, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Baptist, Age : 19, City : Biloxi, State : MS, Country : United States, Occupation : U.S. Govt, Education level : High School Diploma, Social class : Middle class,
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