[Wheezygirl]

I have recently become reacquainted with an old friend from 10 years ago and I suspect that she’s now a lesbian. Even though it’s irrelevant in terms of how it would affect our relationship, I just have a natural curiousity to know. I’d like to know because it’s getting to the point where our conversations are awkward and I don’t want to assume she’s one or the other. I also don’t want to put her on the spot. Does anyone have suggestions for me? Do I wait until the timing is right or do I just bite the bullet or mind my own business or what?

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Name : Wheezygirl, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, City : Calgary, Alberta, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Fundraiser, Education level : 4 Years of College, 

[Wolf Shadow]

I have a few friends that are gay, and they seem to appreciate the fact that I have an honest interest. But these people are very secure in who they are. If you don’t get that feeling from your friend, I wouldn’t “cold question” her about it. If it really becomes too awkward, I’d get her in a group, maybe have her invite a few people, then it might come out in the normal conversation. Finally, I can’t stress the word “honest” enough. If you have a question, ask. If it’s an honest question, it’ll come from the heart, instead of from a nervous stomach.

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Name : Wolf Shadow, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Age : 40, City : Manassas Park, State : VA, Country : United States, Occupation : Philosopher, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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