[John A.]

With all the trials and tribulations blind people must contend with in daily life, I wonder how, well, ‘lust’ is handled. What I mean is that a sighted person can look upon a beautiful woman or handsome man and feel the pleasure that merely looking at the good-looking can bring. Is the blind person, therefore, reduced to feelings of extreme frustration that only actual lovemaking can relieve, or is fantasy, imagination and masturbation able to lessen the annoying itch of horniness that nearly all of us – blind and sighted – experience daily?

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Name : John A., Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 41, City : Boston, State : MA, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 

[Cassandra32407]

I have a close friend who’s been blind since birth. He does fantasize and masturbate, thinking of past sexual experiences, sounds and sensations that are stimulating. (He has also had many sex partners, so he has much to draw upon.) Because he has never seen anything or anyone (even himself), he does not miss what he never had.

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Name : Cassandra32407, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 36, City : Chicago, State : IL, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[Meri C]

I am blind, and I have been since I was four. I would also like to clear this misconception that blind people deal with constant “trials and tribulations.” This is absolutely false. Yes, I do have to do things differently than a sighted person, but that’s the only difference. To answer the question: I don’t think that I am reduced to feelings of extreme frustration because of the fact that I can’t look at a man. It’s true that I don’t know how it feels to look at a man and feel pleasure, but there is so much more to the sexiness of a person than how they look. For me, obviously, if a man is charming in his thoughts and words, I can easily be attracted to him. Also, masculine colognes mixed with the natural body scent can be arousing. Needless to say, tactile and aural sensations are the best, though. A pleasing voice and soft touches are wonderful. I don’t feel that I am deprived of a person’s beauty because I can’t see. I don’t feel like I have a lesser knowledge of a person’s attractivness because I can’t see. Fantasy, imagination and masturbation work for the blind just as they work for the sighted. The fantasies may be of a different nature, though.

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Name : Meri C, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : Blind, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Religion : Catholic, Age : 22, City : Verona, State : NA, Country : Italy, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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