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- February 21, 1999 at 12:00 am #2071
Kris26223ParticipantI have been with my current boyfriend about five years. We have experimented with different sexual practices, including anal sex. He seems to enjoy me using my finger in his anus when I perform oral sex on him. Is it possible that this could mean he is gay or bisexual?
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Name : Kris26223, Gender : F, City : N/A, State : NA, Country : N/A,September 21, 1999 at 12:00 am #41370
VictorMemberCOULD it mean? Well, yes. But it is much more likely that he is a secure heterosexual, in touch with his body. There are a lot of nerve endings around the anus making it an erogenous zone for many people–men and women–as you have probably found out. Personally, I love that kind of stimulation when receiving oral sex but I am not sexually attracted to men–which is really the definition of being gay. Unless your boyfriend starts to express feeling for men, you should separate anal contact with homosexuality.
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Name : Victor, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Hispanic/Latino (may be any race), Age : 29, City : Queens, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : teacher, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,December 16, 2002 at 12:00 am #34211
Paul30474ParticipantHe is not Gay, all men have a prostate gland and that’s what your stimulating. It is very pleasurable indeed!
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Name : Paul30474, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 38, City : Bethlehem, State : PA, Country : United States, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class,January 14, 2003 at 12:00 am #43867
Renee30146ParticipantMy husband loves this. And to tell the truth, he never thought he would until I read that penetrating a man this way accesses his g-spot. He agreed to try it, about exploded and said yes it’s the g-spot. So no, this doesn’t mean he may be gay or bisexual. It is just a really good feeling for them. And I don’t mind doing this for him.
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Name : Renee30146, Gender : F, Age : 23, City : n/a, State : NA, Country : United States,July 27, 2006 at 12:00 am #44622
WDParticipantJust because a man likes to have his anus stimulated doesn’t mean that he is gay or bisexual. Some straight guys like playing with their asses and some gay guys don’t. Anal play has nothing to do with sexual orientation. It’s a stereotype. The anus is filled with nerve endings and is very erogenous. Also, anal penetration of a man stimulates the prostate gland, which produces most of the semen he ejaculates. An orgasm accompanied with prostate massage can be extremely strong, as well as emotionally powerful. I suggest you go to town on your guy’s bottom and stop worrying. Of course, he ought to be clean down there–he should at least wash, and better yet, use an enema so his rectum is empty and clean. Use lots KY Jelly or another thick gel lubricant. Do it with him on his back and legs lifted, or bent over with his ass in the air. Talk dirty to him. Maybe he would like more than one finger inside or even a dildo. Or to have you lick his anus and stick your tongue inside. Again, taking pleasure in his anus doesn’t make a man gay. If you’re really attracted to him you ought to love his ass. Here are some worthwhile articles on the topic; http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_200/249_love_tip.htmlhttp://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_analplay.shtml http://abbys-sexual-health.com/advice/anal_sex/milking_the_prostate.php http://www.whitelotuseast.com/SacredSpotMassage.htm http://www.sexherald.com/sexual-taboo/men_who_like_receiving_it_&_women_who_like_giving_it-_more_than_mere_fetish.html http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=27834
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