Am I bi because a girl turns me on?

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    Tiffany
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    I am the exact same way and I’ve asked a couple people what they thought because I was weirded out myself. I think it is normal to think someone of the same sex is attractive. I don’t know if most people think about doing sexual things, i do, but there’s nothing wrong with being attracted to the same sex. I don’t think youre bi until you act on it and have a lesbian relationship. I’m kind of having a time with it because I’m in a serious relationship with a guy I love dearly, but for the last like 6 months, I haven’t been able to get off in bed unless I thought about another girl? What do you think of that?

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    Name : Tiffany, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Methodist, Age : 20, City : Flint, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Parts Analyst, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class, 
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    AmyM
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    Labels for sexuality are constructed by society to communicate and make things simpler (theoretically) but don’t really reflect reality. I think the important question for you is what it means to you to be bi or straight. Being bisexual does *not* necessarily mean that you have to have someone of each sex, or that you even have to ever do anything with a woman, just as many heterosexuals choose to be celibate or save sexual activity for marriage. I am bisexual and have been with the (male) love of my life for a few years, and we plan to get married. I choose to have the deeper commitment of being with one person for life and I believe the rewards of loyalty outweigh any potential benefits of more varied sexual opportunities.

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    Name : AmyM, Gender : Female, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 42, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 
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