[Righteous Query]

I personally think that it is OK to find another woman attractive and it in no way makes you bi. Trying something or feeling something is different than living something. If you begin have relationships with women and men consistently, then that would make you bi. Having an urge or feeling is natural. Who knows, you may act on your feelings and find that it wasn’t what you thought at all. One encounter with a woman would not make you a life long lesbian. Don’t get caught up into labels and most importantly, don’t let something like attraction and basic human emotions freak you out. As far as telling your friend, I think you should open up. I had a similar experience and it opened my life up a lot.

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Name : Righteous Query, Gender : F, Race : Black/African American, Age : 32, City : Los Angeles, State : CA, Country : United States, Occupation : Managment, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

[AmyM]

Labels for sexuality are constructed by society to communicate and make things simpler (theoretically) but don’t really reflect reality. I think the important question for you is what it means to you to be bi or straight. Being bisexual does *not* necessarily mean that you have to have someone of each sex, or that you even have to ever do anything with a woman, just as many heterosexuals choose to be celibate or save sexual activity for marriage. I am bisexual and have been with the (male) love of my life for a few years, and we plan to get married. I choose to have the deeper commitment of being with one person for life and I believe the rewards of loyalty outweigh any potential benefits of more varied sexual opportunities.

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Name : AmyM, Gender : Female, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 42, City : Philadelphia, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : student, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class, 

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