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You’re 16, everything turns you on. Are you turned on by imagining being with a girl? No. Then you’re not bisexual.
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Name : Aimee19511, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 28, City : Cape Town, State : NA, Country : South Africa, Occupation : IT, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,To suggest you might be bisexual is to assume that you are also attracted to young men. If you are indeed attracted to both genders, please do not think there is anything wrong with you. If it turns out that you are only attracted to your own gender and are homosexual, then that is OK, too. The world has become more accepting of the openness of homosexuality and you should never feel ashamed of being different than those in your circle or your family. As long as you don’t hurt anyone or yourself (physically, that is), then learn to feel comfortable with your natural feelings
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Name : Rachel, Gender : Female, Race : Black/African American, Religion : Buddhist, Age : 48, City : Sydney, State : NA, Country : Australia, Education level : 2 Years of College,From what you’ve written, it’s much more likely that you’re gay rather than bi-sexual.
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Name : Rick19531, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Atheist, City : Springfield, State : OH, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,Since it has happened more then one time, I would say so. There is nothing wrong with that, though. It is up to you about your friend. If you’re comfortable with it then do it. If you are not then don’t.
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Name : Jamie, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 18, City : n/a, State : NY, Country : United States, Occupation : student, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Lower middle class,Sexuality is fluid. Our orientations and turn-ons can vary over time, and it is not necessarily indicative that we are bi, gay, or straight. Many people question their sexuality or feel that they are in between categories. I suggest that you experiment safely and keep an open and honest mind, you could find a lot of sexual and emotional pleasure in your newfound ventures.
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Name : Ben, City : Chapel Hill, State : NC, Country : United States,honestly i dont think you are its not like you want to have a relationship with the girl
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Name : diamond, City : miami, State : FL, Country : United States,While I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being bi or gay, I don’t think that going through a curious phase or having fantasies makes you bi or gay. You’re at an age where exploring your sexuality and ‘figuring things out’ are normal. I wouldn’t obsess over it. But I’m also not sure if sharing it with your friend, just yet, would be the best thing to do. I’d wait awhile and see how my feeling and preferences develop before making any statements to a friend. Unless, you really feel as though you can’t go through this process alone and you really do trust your friend. I think that women who identify as hetero have had fantasies and even some expirimentation with other women. Just take your time to figure out who you are and what you prefer. Either way, there’s nothing wrong with it.
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Name : Cindy19571, Gender : Female, Age : 30, City : Lansing, State : MI, Country : United States,I see sexuality as a ‘spectrum.’ Almost everyone is a little bi, whether they act on it or not, so in that sense you are. Does this mean you have to identify yourself as bisexual because you were turned on by a couple women? No. You’re what, 16? You’re still discovering yourself, so don’t worry about it. If you are predominantly attracted to men, I don’t think there is any problem with you considering yourself straight or mostly-straight. Also, it has been shown that a lot of women can be sexually turned on by the sight of -anybody- having sex, whether they are all men, all women, or a mix. It’s the act that turns them on, not the people.
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Name : Jack19640, Gender : Male, Sexual Orientation : Gay, Race : White/Caucasian, Age : 21, City : Oshkosh, State : WI, Country : United States, Occupation : Camp Counselor, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,It’s a possiblity that you’re bi. But if i were you i wouldn’t really worry about it. I’d take some time to yourself before you tell your friend but if you feel like you need to discuss it with someone your friend might be a good place to start.
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Name : Dani-R, Age : 17, City : na, State : ME, Country : United States,I don’t think you are bi. I have been turned on by girls before, friends or movie stars. And I have also had fantasies about other women. (But then I get totally grossed out thinking about…female parts). I think it’s more of your mind and body becoming more sexual. (You are in that stage of life). Not that there is anything wrong with being bi. One of my childhood friends turned out to be bi and I was always OK with that. Don’t let if freak you out. But if you do decide that the urge is too strong, explore it?
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Name : Christine19696, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 19, City : Fargo, State : ND, Country : United States, Social class : Lower middle class,I think people’s sexuality in general is so broad that at different times in your life you can feel a spark from different people or things. I don’t consider myself bisexual, but that doesn’t mean that a good-looking guy doesn’t get my attention now and then. But you’ll know if you ever end up making out with a girl. For me, I never felt true sparks fly until I was kissing women. That was far more natural to me than any guy I ever kissed. Don’t worry so much about labeling ‘am I this or that?’ and everything will fall into place just how it’s supposed to be for you.
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Name : Chris19747, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Lesbian, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Agnostic, Age : 34, City : Madisonville, State : KY, Country : United States, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Do you want to have sex with a woman? If you do then it will happen sooner or later.
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Name : Rocky L Huddleston, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, Age : 55, City : Berkley, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : wound car tec, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class,I’ve had feelings for girls for as long as I can remember, though until the past few years, I was very much in denial. I’ve found that sexuality tends to occur more on a sliding scale than the very black and white categories of gay, bi, or straight. Even though I identify as being bi, I do have a stronger attraction to girls. But I also have a stronger attraction to people with dark hair and dark eyes – it doesn’t mean I don’t give the blonde, blue eyed people a chance.
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Name : Laura, Gender : Female, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Methodist, Age : 20, City : Grand Rapids, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Student, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class,Welcome to my world. I am attracted to both men and women and have been since a few months before my eleventh birthday. Based on your description I would say you were born bisexual. My suggestion is move carefully but go ahead and enjoy it. I made myself miserable for years trying to pretend I could choose one sexual orientation or the other. If you are truly bi, you will always find yourself wanting someone of each sex. For me the only solution was to enter a long-term relationship that includes one man and one woman. It is not always easy but we make it work. We have been together over a decade and still counting.
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Name : Keith19795, Gender : M, Sexual Orientation : Bisexual, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Christian, City : Dallas, State : TX, Country : United States, Education level : Over 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,I am the exact same way and I’ve asked a couple people what they thought because I was weirded out myself. I think it is normal to think someone of the same sex is attractive. I don’t know if most people think about doing sexual things, i do, but there’s nothing wrong with being attracted to the same sex. I don’t think youre bi until you act on it and have a lesbian relationship. I’m kind of having a time with it because I’m in a serious relationship with a guy I love dearly, but for the last like 6 months, I haven’t been able to get off in bed unless I thought about another girl? What do you think of that?
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Name : Tiffany, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Methodist, Age : 20, City : Flint, State : MI, Country : United States, Occupation : Parts Analyst, Education level : Technical School, Social class : Middle class,
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