Reply To: Reply To: Why threatened by independent women?

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Poro Poro
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Many times I have been told many men have a hard time figuring out how to deal with women who are both attractive AND intelligent. I suppose to them it seems like such women have it all – by old-world standards, an attractive woman is the preferred candidate to be a man’s mate to bear his children, and to obtain such a women, a man must prove his competence in return. I suppose an attractive women who is competent will frustrate some men this way. Yes, it takes men who are open-minded and comfortable with themselves to be able to tackle such women. When a man seems to be at ease around me (who is one such woman), it tells me he is confident of himself. I find that people who are more educated (which may or may not have to do with actual level of education) tend to be more open about such things. Unfortunately I have double standards which I can only blame on my primal instincts. I do prefer my man to be more intelligent than I am. To me, being smart is very attractive.

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Name : Poro Poro, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : Asian, Religion : Atheist, Age : 26, City : Toronto, State : NA, Country : Canada, Occupation : Computer Programmer, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,