[Brenda]

I am responding to this part of your posting in particular: “Because of this, many guys go out of their way to choose white women as partners, yet will deny it by stating they ‘just happened’ to fall for someone who ‘happened’ to be white. While there are those who are truly in love with the person they are with, the majority of the time this is not the case, though no one will ever admit it.”

Although I agree with you that white women are glorified in this country, I think it is quite arrogant of you to assume you know the motivations behind any ‘majority’ of people, because you don’t. No one does. Your assumption may or may not be correct, and you should recognize that.

My interpretation may be wrong, but it sounds as though you are saying you date white women exclusively. If so, why? Indian women are absolutely gorgeous. If you look back into your own dating history, have the majority of the women you have dated been white? If so, you need to ask yourself why.

In addition, just because one’s preference for who one dates seems to point to one type of physical characteristic or another means just that – a preference. Try not to look any deeper into it. Asking why someone prefers something is absurd – would you ask me why I prefer to eat corn vs. beans? No. It’s because I just do. I understand there is a possiblity that people seek out one or the other for a statement or something, but give people the benefit of the doubt.

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Name : Brenda, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Race : European-American, Religion : Catholic, Age : 23, City : Pittsburgh, State : PA, Country : United States, Occupation : Intern, Education level : 4 Years of College, Social class : Middle class,