May 4, 1999 at 12:00 am #28667
Stacey
Participant
I'm full-figured and kind of feel that way myself. I'm usually not attracted to overweight men, but I think the difference between men and women is that women are not going to be with a man because he's good-looking; he also has to have a brain, be nice to her and work. On the other hand, I've noticed men date attractive women - no matter how smart she is or even if she's nice. As long as she looks goo, that's all that matters to some men. That's what bothers me as we as a people (myself included) don't see beyond a person's looks when it comes to to seeking a mate.