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Unfortunately, one of the products of racism is that its target members usually express opposition via measures that can seem as extreme as the oppression they resist. The idea of “selling out” or “being contaminated” by your white husband reflects how deeply affected many blacks are by white racism. However, the feelings of distrust are real, and the disdain for whites, by some blacks, also reflects valid emotions. The reality is that we live in a society whose race relations are strained at best. People are indeed judged by skin, relationships and associations. If I could offer you anything, I’d say that it’s time to make some new connections with people who have a broader vision of the human experience. As well, keep in mind that the reaction you are getting from some of your friends has more to do with society’s unwillingness to accept and validate all human beings rather than with you personally. For your own emotional health, seek truth rather than acceptance – truth, when tested, stands on its own. Best and congratulations on a happy union.