Yearly Archives: 2016

Dare to Ask: Any way to know if cart users ever fake disability?

By Phillip Milano Question What I just experienced at the grocery store infuriated me. Three women — a teenager, an elderly woman and a middle-aged woman — were shopping together. The teenager was riding a motorized cart for handicapped customers. After checking out, the teenager jumped off the cart and all three walked out laughing their butts off. I can …

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Dare to Ask: Can you describe someone as ‘that white girl,’ ‘that black guy’?

By Phillip J. Milano Question I would like to know of a better way to address someone in their absence. Let me give an example: It annoys me when people say “that white girl” or “that black guy.” — Shaina, Indian, Fort Worth, Texas Replies How stupid would we be if when answering a question such as “which clerk took care of …

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Dare to Ask: Dumb and dumber? Try overloaded

By Phillip J. Milano Question Are people getting dumber? I’m referring to lack of common sense or awareness. Things that used to be out of the ordinary (inattentive drivers, shoppers with no clue about others’ carts, people unprepared for transactions, etc.) are now commonplace. — Brad, 32, Provo, Utah Replies Yes. — Roxanne, Illinois “Dumber” isn’t a word. You just proved your …

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