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    I am a 26 year old female caucasion and have dated black males all my life except once and he just so happened to be hispanic. i can say that all black men are a$$holes because one has cheated or tried to be a player but that would be putting a title on the entire race. it doesnt matter what color your skin, every race is capable of doing the same things. I personally am attracted to skin of color. I like brown eyes and full lips, features you rarely find on a caucasion. When it comes down to a black man dating a white women, it is so easy for someone to say, ‘oh, its because white women take everything the black man has to dish out’. Did anyone ever stop to think that just maybe two peeople one black, one white just might like each other, have the same common interests, be in love etc. Why cant a white woman and a black man last? because of history, because of roots where they came from? all of that can be learned. Because they need to know how to braid hair? that can be learned. because they need to know how to cook soul food? that can be learned. I am tired of hearing about all of the negative reasons and stereotypes why black men date white women. those reasons all seem to come from jealous black women who are angry at the fact that all of ‘the good brothers’ are dating white women (at least that is the way it is said.) why is this such a big deal? NO ONE IS JUST WHITE OR JUST BLACK OR JUST HISPANIC or asian. AFRAID THAT ONE RACE IS GOING TO OVER POPULATE ANOTHER? ACCORDING TO STATISTICS HISPANICS ARE STARTING TO become the majority race SO WHY NOT JUMP ON THAT BAND WAGON AND COMPLAIN ABOUT YOUR ‘GOOD BLACK BROTHERS DATING HISPANICS’. OH AND BLACKS WERE NOT THE ONLY ONES THAT WERE EVER IN SLAVERY SO PLEASE STOP WITH THE TIRED LINE THAT ‘you white people owe me everything because my ancestors’ ancestors were in slavery.’ I am not saying that all blacks are like this but to the ones that are…give it up. talk about holding grudges. I know that whites have had their share of doing dirt too. Truth be told, this blame game of race against race can be played for eternity, but why waist time and effort on this. just let people be. maybe people should think about finding happiness in their own lives and stop trying to butt into and cause problems and ruin everyone elses.

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    Name : sunshine, Gender : F, Sexual Orientation : Straight, Disability : Blind, Race : White/Caucasian, Religion : Mormon, Age : 26, City : el paso, State : TX, Country : United States, Occupation : intelligence, Education level : 2 Years of College, Social class : Lower middle class, 
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