[kt]

It makes sense to me that you said that people just don’t GET it, how real other people are and complex just like them, with feelings too. And they seem sort of like a bad computer game. good analogy. Like, a good example of this is how a person who is relatively polite, but doesn’t grasp how real other people are, will critisize a stranger, then, when instead of a stranger, a friend, and they will be more inclined to be more open minded. Even though a stranger, and thier friend, are just as much human as the other, and should be of equal worth. Although some people don’t seem capable of even WANTING to being polite, or kind. I consider myself a person striving to be kind, and good. I sort of have this deep feeling that everyone is good, to them, so it sort of mystifies me when they do things mean things for no reason. I’ve dealt with cruelty from classmates in my past that makes me want to just hate them. It made me want pure revenge, because it made me so angry and infuriated of some of the ways they were cruel to me. Now I think I am learning to be more forgiving, its hard, to find the fine line between being good, and tolerating others being ‘bad’. well, thats all of my rambling.

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I think that you all are looking deeper into this then it probably is. I doubt that most single white females are looking for single white males to keep thier race alive, or a statistic things, or any other technical reasons. They probably just prefer white males. Me, being a WhiteFemale, prefer white males also. Its just because I seem to be able to relate to them better, and i just like the way they look better, and I am just accustomed to them in general, when it comes to dating. I have nothing against the other races, and I think that they are quite beautiful, though it is just my preference. But to why it seems to you that its mostly the white females that prefer white males? Well, for some reason, maybe most white females prefer white males. In my opinon, there’s nothing wrong with being close minded about the type of people you want to date, if that’s what you like. Your comment reminds me of one I hear a lot from some black females feeling like all the black males are being taken away by white females. For one, it’s not probably accurate about every black guy, and second, it just seems pointless form that opinion in your head and get angry at it, because there are probably much more fish in the sea. I guess I’m not a black woman looking for a black male, so I can’t really understand how they feel. Although, I know that if a white guy did not want to date white girls, and just wanted black girls, I would just have the feeling ‘Oh, he’s that way, I’m not his type, on to the next’ if i wanted to date him. I would not think ‘ugh, he had better change his ways.’ I mean, just accept it. well, thats enough of my rambling.

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