[jummy30916]

no! i don’t think you should lie to her out of an unsolicited social code. you’re her lover and she’s looking to you for an honest opinion. her having your support may or may not mean she’ll do it, either way the decision is her’s as an individual. the ‘trick’ you’re hearing in her question wasn’t placed there by your girlfriend, but by people like nicole who want to tell other women how to be women. (some ‘sisterhood’. more like paternalism) having said that, i agree with nicole to the extent that cosmetic surgery is often the worst of solutions. support her in her doubts about it as well as her interest.

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